What to do when a girl passing you gives you EC/checks you out

[KossHP]

I dunno to me it seems kinda less alpha or just kinda wierd to just turn around and start chatting these chicks up. I go to college so theres usually a crowd around. Or is my thinking just messed up.

 

[B-Real]

I have always wondered that. I see girls checking me out as i pass by them and I'm always at lost for words.

Plus your right, to me it does seem kinda desperate or less alpha. My natural reaction would be to smile and think to myself "she wants me" but that obvisouly doesnt get the girl.

 

[ligyron]

One powerful thing I've been doing since I went back to college is maintaining eye contact a bit longer (ideally until the girl breaks eye contact), and maybe with a subtle smile

Believe it or not, this goes a long way, and girls love it because it's not something guys do very often. My friends are always saying "Whoa she was giving you some looks then!" A couple days ago I was walking to a class with my friend, and one of the many attractive girls in school was walking by and by simply maintaining confident eye contact, she was looking directly at me and smiling and after we passed her, my friend in amazement says, "Do you know her ???"

It also makes it easier to talk to them later if you happen to be together, because it feels as if you've already connected on some level

Nice

 

[Play the Game]

Have you tried saying...... drumroll.....





Hi!

 

[B-Real]

Ok you could say hi and then she says hi and then yall both keep walking in the same direction you started.

I hate moving targets!!

 

[HandyAndy]

"see something you like?"