What to do What to do?

[#1 P.I.M.P.]

Ok here's the deal, me and my friend just started back getting friendly.
For those of you who don't know Read this topic so u can catch up http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?threadid=52637.

Anyway, i saw her at church the other day and sat next to her but leaving just one seat between us at first i pretended not to see her, then after a second i glanced over at her stareing at me and gave her a sort of wink and she respondded with a smile. I didn't sit next to her cause she is always like kinoin me and distracting me while i'm trying to get my spirtual food . But afterward she was watching over at me smiling again so i went over and talked to her. The conversation sorta went like.

Hey, what's going on with your hair*touching her hair slightly*.
What, you talkinn bout.
Your hair, is like 2 toned.
That's my natural colour.
Yeah right, naturally gold, and I never noticed it yet.
She jsut smiled.

We talked a lil bit for bout a 5 then I had to leave her to talk some buisness with somone.

We went to a party recently a group of us, and she sat up close to me and we chated a bit. She hinted at me that she wanted to dance I kinda nodded her off, cause she was making fun of some older people and I asked her if she taught she could do better and she got ****ey and said yes. AFter a while we parted cause it's not like she is my GF, then this guy started hitting on her and she ended up talking to him. I didn't bother to cut in cause i didn't want to seem obsessive and controlling.

Anyway, danced with her later that night, we talked a bit while we were danceing. Went to dance with her a second time and she was like my hands are all stickey, and I like loned her my rag to wipe and she said shed use a napkin then she went to get it and as i was about to dance with her this other guy who was hitttin on her cut in. I'm much bigger than him and coulda hurt him but i didn't. Also, She's been hitting me this often, she'll be playing with her skirt or pants or top button and then she'd tell me like, Pretend u just didn't see that (insert name here). Don't know if she's flirting being ****ey tryng to intice me or just jokeing around.

Anyway, were're on cool terms right now and was wondering if I should ask her out now or just play it cool. I don't want to do anything in the wrong timing. Also whats a good way I can tell off this guy and quit him from macking on my chick in a technical way. I could do it physically but that'd just make me look obsessive and scare her away. I was thinking maybee to tell him what other guys tried on me, tell him you know you'd meet other chicks and make him insecure so it would look as if she isn't intrested. Any Ideas fellas.

 

[squirrels]

If you would MAKE YOUR MOVE and stop standing there with your thumbs up your ass waiting for an excuse, then you wouldn't HAVE to deal with the other guys moving in because YOU'D be in.

Listen to all the excuses you're making:

"I didn't know if she was flirting"
"I didn't want to be obsessive"
"It's not like she's my GF".

Yes, it IS like she's your GF, you're just afraid to admit it. F*cking go out there and treat her like she's your GF!! Dance with her, get physical, have fun, and stop making excuses for what you want to do.

You can't rationalize it away. No matter how many excuses you make up, it doesn't change the fact that you want to make sweet love to this girl. Now grab your balls and DO something.

 

[#1 P.I.M.P.]

Originally posted by squirrels
If you would MAKE YOUR MOVE and stop standing there with your thumbs up your ass waiting for an excuse, then you wouldn't HAVE to deal with the other guys moving in because YOU'D be in.

Listen to all the excuses you're making:

"I didn't know if she was flirting"
"I didn't want to be obsessive"
"It's not like she's my GF".

Yes, it IS like she's your GF, you're just afraid to admit it. F*cking go out there and treat her like she's your GF!! Dance with her, get physical, have fun, and stop making excuses for what you want to do.

You can't rationalize it away. No matter how many excuses you make up, it doesn't change the fact that you want to make sweet love to this girl. Now grab your balls and DO something.

Thanks, The wakeup call I needed.

 

[#1 P.I.M.P.]

I'm going to ask her out this week here, one thing tho, i usually ask he in person or on the phone but dose this sound like a good Idea. I was thinking about surprising her with a rose and a note askeing her about it and then hitting her up on it later in person or on the phone to see if she's game. Whadda u think.

 

[rgeere]

Originally posted by #1 P.I.M.P.
I. I was thinking about surprising her with a rose and a note askeing her about.............

W E A K A P P R O A C H . . . . . . . .

Do it in person or onthe phone and forget about fancy stuff that you think will impress her but will actually make her feel manipulated.....

 

[Mack Action Hero]

Originally posted by #1 P.I.M.P.
I was thinking about surprising her with a rose and a note askeing her about it and then hitting her up on it later in person or on the phone to see if she's game. Whadda u think.

Jebus crizzy man, no!!

I choked on the mac n cheese I was eating when I read that.

Look, don't do any special asking out at all -- just talk to her like you normally do, say hey, you wanna come watch a movie or something at your house, see if she wants to go grab something to eat, keep it CASUAL.

You're watching a movie, you're on the couch or whatever, you've got your arm around her, maybe lying down, go for the hand, see how all that's received. If it's good, you're clear to go for the kiss... and you're all set.

 

[#1 P.I.M.P.]

THanks. I was thinking of the movie and then maybee the amusement park afterward. Migh go see catwoman. She's really hot like 9-10 for real. At times she'd hit u a personality that makes her a 9 or lower but most of the times she's a cool 10. Won't be bad if i compliment her a little bit would it not to overdo it but the thin is she's a 10 and I know she can be ****ey at times so I don't want to seem AFC. I rarely do it so it would be like a thank u for going out with me.

 

[rgeere]

Originally posted by #1 P.I.M.P.
I rarely do it so it would be like a thank u for going out with me.

DO NOT GIVE GIRLS SPECIAL TREATEMENT WHO HAVE NOT PROVEN TO YOU THAT THEY DESERVE SPECIAL TREATMENT...

Bad frames of thought you have going on there...

 

[#1 P.I.M.P.]

Originally posted by rgeere
DO NOT GIVE GIRLS SPECIAL TREATEMENT WHO HAVE NOT PROVEN TO YOU THAT THEY DESERVE SPECIAL TREATMENT...

Bad frames of thought you have going on there...

I'm thinking about it cause she complimented me on my dancing the other night and I was kinda C/F about it, don't know if I sould have been nicer. But I'm thinking that maybee she deserves it this time caue she's been real nice as of lately flirtatious and sitting real close to me, at first I used to have to be the one to come up and initiate but now che dose even giving me those puppydog eyes now and then.

 

[rgeere]

Originally posted by #1 P.I.M.P.
I'm thinking about it cause she complimented me on my dancing the other night and I was kinda C/F about it, don't know if I sould have been nicer. But I'm thinking that maybee she deserves it this time caue she's been real nice as of lately flirtatious and sitting real close to me, at first I used to have to be the one to come up and initiate but now che dose even giving me those puppydog eyes now and then.

All the more reason to INTENSIFY YOUR C/F AND TEASING..

You get nice on her that's all going to stop. Quit this pattern of AFC behaviour..

 

[#1 P.I.M.P.]

Originally posted by rgeere
All the more reason to INTENSIFY YOUR C/F AND TEASING..

You get nice on her that's all going to stop. Quit this pattern of AFC behaviour..

Hey I didn't AFC yet, but It was just a taught .

 

[rgeere]

Originally posted by #1 P.I.M.P.
Hey I didn't AFC yet, but It was just a taught .

Thoughts like that will get you LJBF'ED or even worse she will start to look to you as being some sort of brother to her or something. I know you don't want any of that so don't wreck a good thing by acting AFC.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Let's open the betting right now!! This kid is already head over heels (aka extreme AFC in his mind) for her and that will show REAL QUICK!!

-Roses
-putting her above you
-being nicer? WTF

Bro your going to blow this with your current mind set for a few reasons:

1-Your already obessing over her!! Never Good!!

2-Your getting jealous in your head when another guy talks to her!! Never Good!!

3-Your putting her on a HUGE pedestal!! Never Good!!

4-Your Scared shiat-less!! Never Good!!


Look you need to realize that hot girls aren't better than you. You need to show her your a MAN, then and ONLY then will you get her. With your current mind set, you'll blow it by being all sappy and emotional waaaaaaaaay too early.


Go read the DJ Bible NOW!!!!!



PIMP

 

[jakethasnake]

Trinidad & Tobago are literally the size of my backyard - I had no idea that there were actually things to do there, let alone INTERNET! LOL... I'm sorry, I was just surprised after seeing your location? I'm sure it's a tropical paradise, though....

 

[#1 P.I.M.P.]

Originally posted by Pimp-sicle
Let's open the betting right now!! This kid is already head over heels (aka extreme AFC in his mind) for her and that will show REAL QUICK!!

-Roses
-putting her above you
-being nicer? WTF

Bro your going to blow this with your current mind set for a few reasons:

1-Your already obessing over her!! Never Good!!

2-Your getting jealous in your head when another guy talks to her!! Never Good!!

3-Your putting her on a HUGE pedestal!! Never Good!!

4-Your Scared shiat-less!! Never Good!!


Look you need to realize that hot girls aren't better than you. You need to show her your a MAN, then and ONLY then will you get her. With your current mind set, you'll blow it by being all sappy and emotional waaaaaaaaay too early.


Go read the DJ Bible NOW!!!!!



PIMP

Naw u see this guy started gettin all ****ey with me and ****. Cause u see he knows she's my squeez and like if I'm dancing with her he'd wave at her from a distance or come up with his dance partner and make some sort of stupid jesture. I just wanna mark my teratory.

 

[#1 P.I.M.P.]

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Originally posted by jakethasnake
Trinidad & Tobago are literally the size of my backyard - I had no idea that there were actually things to do there, let alone INTERNET! LOL... I'm sorry, I was just surprised after seeing your location? I'm sure it's a tropical paradise, though....

Ha Ha... Very funny. In fact tere's lots of stuff to do. Trinidad is very comercialized right now, and it not as small as most other cribbean countries are. Plus, the honies are yummy . Pussies like mangoes just juicy .