Hey everyone here, I just joined this place and not sure if this is the right place to post but I need some help. I am 19 and most of the girls that I get are online. I am not good with approaching girls that I do not know (If I know that a girl is into me then I don't have a problem with making moves, why it is easy for me online) Also most of them that I meet online are either fat/ugly and I just **** and chuck them, and the few hot girls that I find are usually full of games and lies and bull****. I need to learn how to play these games the right way for me to have the upperhand (I have a tendancy to get clingy when I do get a hot one cause it only happens once every couple months or so) I also am sick of hooking up with these gross ass girls too, I feel like I should be able to do better than that. As far as meeting them in person I recently moved on my own and I am in community college (which is a hard place to even meet friends much less than girls) and I am a cashier at Walmart (which is also hard to hit on girls while at work) Anyone else my age or thats had similar experinces that can help me out??
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What to do? Sick of games
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