What to do she is constantly 1-2 hours late for each "date"

[nkh78h]

Met this chick from a # close at gas station. She has an insane body, very funny and the first date was awesome.

Date 1 - set time to meet at 2 (so i was there on time), then got a text saying 2:30, then 3:00, finally she got there at 3:30.

Date 2 - set time to meet at 2, same exact thing but last minute she gave her phone to friend and i got a text saying she was running late because she had interview.

The thing is, she knows I have work at 5. Both times I was late for work. Also I work weekends (so I told her) I really have a gf and unable to meet on weekends.


Should I continue to give her a chance (i really want to smash, not date). Should I ignore her text or respond with something sorta rude but playful?

 

[Albatross953]

Well, third date if you don't f close I think you know the deal. But sounds like you're an option. Or she's low quality.

 

[nkh78h]

Well, third date if you don't f close I think you know the deal. But sounds like you're an option. Or she's low quality.

What do you mean by "sounds like you're an option"

Thanks man

 

[skinnyguy]

She's spinning plates and you're one of them

 

[Jaylan]

EDIT:

I just caught the part where you have a girlfriend OP. So I take back everything I originally wrote.

lmfao...come on bro. Do you really expect this girl to make you her top priority when you are just trying to make her your side piece? Shes clearly keeping her options open and not taking you that seriously.

Personally I abhor cheating and think its a scumbag move in the bag of tricks of those who are low quality. At least protect your gf's health and wear a condom if youre gonna cheat. Because Ive heard horror stories regarding STDs and pregnancy when cheating dudes dont wrap their sh!t up.

 

[Harry Wilmington]

Hold up - did I miss the part where you said you ALREADY have a girlfriend??

 

[VladPatton]

LOL You have a gf, but this side plate you're trying to spin is not playing nicely. Oh the humanity! Next time just tell her "yeah, I'll call you some time, I just can't wait around for you like the past 2 times, sorry, gotta go...bye" and you next her. If she ain't down on her knees blowin your bozak, then it's not worth messing up your current gf situation. Next this flakey twӓt.

 

[Peterpack]

I can't stand girls who run late

I would not put up with any girl running that late.

You could try this

Say you want a date for 2pm. Tell her 12.30pm. If she gets there before 2pm, you tell her your running late

She has to wait for you

 

[Piers Nivens]

She runs late. You cheat. Who's worse?

 

[Maximus Rex]

Assuming This Isn't Troll Bait

The question is what's lacking in your relationship that you feel the need to **** around on your girl.

 

[Maximus Rex]

Assuming This Isn't Troll Bait

The real question should be what's lacking in your relationship that you feel the need to f@ck around on your girl.

 

[8ball]

Make a date. Don't show up. Then say you "forgot about it".

 

[skinnyguy]

I was going to say that if she doesn't show up after 20 minutes, send a text that says "sorry I have to go I have another date after this".

 

[Mike32ct]

I'm not for cheating, but I'll avoid the lecture.

I agree that she has little or no respect for you by now because you put up with major tardiness twice. I'm willing to cut someone slack once, but twice is no accident.

How far did it go physically so far? Unless you got a serious makeout* by now at a minimum, it's not looking too promising.

*Even then she could just be just stringing you along.

 

[nismo-4]

She's sucking off a more attractive man, that's why she's late. She wouldn't show up late for Brad Pitt, hell she'd be 10 minutes early.

Stop tolerating female bulls**t. Drop her ass, she has low interest.

Case closed.