OK, so what do I do here?
Brief history with the girl: Shes a model and is absolutely stunning. I met her through other people who I know and kissed her out a few months ago. We have been texting for quite a while and then about a month ago I took her on a date. It went well and she text me afterward to say she had a great time etc. and we should do it again. I didn't see her for another 2 weeks and then last week at halloween we met up after a night out (she had rang me as she told me she was going out that nite). I took her back to my party that morning and we slept together (didn't have sex but did other stuff). Then on Halloween night she came out to my local knowing I would be there and we spent most of the night together and got drunk. I went back to hers and we slept together again, talking **** and cuddling for most of the night with a bit of funny business. She said she wouldn't have sex unless she was in a relationship, so its not like I was being a frigid!
That was last Saturday and when she text me the following Tuesday saying she was sad because her trip to Leeds was cancelled I told her to keep off Friday because I was talking her out. So I took her out Friday to the chineese, followed by the cinema and everything was going well and as I ordered the VIP screening we watched the film on a large sofa and cuddled and didnt watch much of the film. I did get the feeling though that there was a weird vibe and found it hard to get the same closeness we had in bed after a few drinks!! So on the way home the journey was fine but we were both tired and the conversation was fine, but nothing special. I left her off home and we kissed goodbye. She text me telling me she had fun.
However, the following night I asked her if she wanted to come out to a nightclub with her friends as I would be there and she said she was waay to tired which is fair enough. I seen her cousins out and said hello to them and bought them a few drinks. Her youger cousin was flirting with me and I was talking back to her but her older cousins tried to seperate which was weird because we were only talking, but they though we were flirting. I never text her that night and then late last night I sent her a message saying she missed a good one, and asked her what she was up to. She never replied but I figured she was sleeping.
Then this morning on facebook her cousin was online and I said whats up. She said she 'heard I was talking to her other cousin' and that we looked very close. Then my girl came online.
'Hey'
'U cross with me?'
she never talked and just went online. I text her there now and asked her if she was cross with me and that it was otherwise rude to ignore me online.
She just text me saying that she had a client (she is a beauty therapist also) and had to go offline but that I was seen go with her cousin!!
Now this is utter bull****, all I did was talk to the girl and now I am in the **** which sucks because although both are hot my girl is extrodinary looking! I am going to tell her to wise the **** up and that I was only talking to her but maybe someone else has better advise?
Brief history with the girl: Shes a model and is absolutely stunning. I met her through other people who I know and kissed her out a few months ago. We have been texting for quite a while and then about a month ago I took her on a date. It went well and she text me afterward to say she had a great time etc. and we should do it again. I didn't see her for another 2 weeks and then last week at halloween we met up after a night out (she had rang me as she told me she was going out that nite). I took her back to my party that morning and we slept together (didn't have sex but did other stuff). Then on Halloween night she came out to my local knowing I would be there and we spent most of the night together and got drunk. I went back to hers and we slept together again, talking **** and cuddling for most of the night with a bit of funny business. She said she wouldn't have sex unless she was in a relationship, so its not like I was being a frigid!
That was last Saturday and when she text me the following Tuesday saying she was sad because her trip to Leeds was cancelled I told her to keep off Friday because I was talking her out. So I took her out Friday to the chineese, followed by the cinema and everything was going well and as I ordered the VIP screening we watched the film on a large sofa and cuddled and didnt watch much of the film. I did get the feeling though that there was a weird vibe and found it hard to get the same closeness we had in bed after a few drinks!! So on the way home the journey was fine but we were both tired and the conversation was fine, but nothing special. I left her off home and we kissed goodbye. She text me telling me she had fun.
However, the following night I asked her if she wanted to come out to a nightclub with her friends as I would be there and she said she was waay to tired which is fair enough. I seen her cousins out and said hello to them and bought them a few drinks. Her youger cousin was flirting with me and I was talking back to her but her older cousins tried to seperate which was weird because we were only talking, but they though we were flirting. I never text her that night and then late last night I sent her a message saying she missed a good one, and asked her what she was up to. She never replied but I figured she was sleeping.
Then this morning on facebook her cousin was online and I said whats up. She said she 'heard I was talking to her other cousin' and that we looked very close. Then my girl came online.
'Hey'
'U cross with me?'
she never talked and just went online. I text her there now and asked her if she was cross with me and that it was otherwise rude to ignore me online.
She just text me saying that she had a client (she is a beauty therapist also) and had to go offline but that I was seen go with her cousin!!
Now this is utter bull****, all I did was talk to the girl and now I am in the **** which sucks because although both are hot my girl is extrodinary looking! I am going to tell her to wise the **** up and that I was only talking to her but maybe someone else has better advise?