"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What to do on Halloween?

Maxtro

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Halloween is tomorrow and if I don't come up with any plans I'll be spending my time on this forum :(

Any ideas what one can do? I don't really got anybody to hang out with except this one girl. Even if I do meet up with her I can't think of anything to do. Spending time at my place is unfortunately out of the question. Any thing to do or go to thats free or pretty cheap?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ken785

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alright bro...well whatever you end up doing just put yourself out there bro...better to go out and get rejected and build game then it is to sit in front of a computer all day playing final fantasy and jacking off to porn...at least i always say...lol :p
 
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