what to do on a weekend..

[dude156]

alright well i have numerous friends
and if i want to hang out all i have to do is call them (girls and guys)
but if i want to hang out with girls that im interested in how can i put my self out there to say i want to hang out? *through school and myspace if possible or anyother way*

experience im going through at the moment = one of the girls dances with my sister found out i was single and flipped out and told my sister why didnt you tell me he was single so i know shes interested and im interested too but i was just talking to her a little bit on aim and she said that me and her are going to a haunted house (i havnt seen them anywhere else but las vegas, so i dono if you guys get these but around halloween they have scary ass **** haunted houses you can go to that they set up, hella pro stuff). so i call her to confirm that we are hanging out but no answer, and then she was on aim and we were talking for a sec and she went afk (dont know why?) so i said we are hanging out today and she didnt reply (dont know why?) and then i give her a call a little later and no answer (phone possibly not near her or somthing?) but this is just an example of is she interested or is she not

another experience i had a few days ago i was suppose to meet up with a girl i was interested in at a football game, i call her to let her know im there.. no answer i text her and said im here and she says where and i told her and she didnt reply, i had a feeling she was following me wheni had to go use the restroom (im pretty sure it was her) i wasnt sure if i should say anything or just keep walking (she was with a friend btw) and so i walk out of the restroom and they were standing there but abruptley went into the ladies room as soon as they saw me so i just walked away and then shortly after i leave and then she texts me the next day saying her phone was on silent.
she was interested in me in the start, i wasnt but then i got intersted
so im very slightly confused here
possibly not her type?

but im just working on all the girls i can, new one every few days

input? good? bad?

btw i just got out of a 1 year relationship, she wanted me back and i didnt want her back so im back out on the market again and fvcking excited

 

[Sean O]

You're calling these girls way too much, and THAT is why they seem to be losing interest. Any challenge you had before was thrown out the window. From now on, only call/text a girl ONCE for each time the two of you are supposed to chill. If she responds, she's interested. If she doesn't, she's either not interested, or giving you the flake test. Either way, you should just try to set up a meeting again. Just remember to not be too eager, and to NOT make it seem like her flaking affected you in any way.

 

[dude156]

You're calling these girls way too much, and THAT is why they seem to be losing interest. Any challenge you had before was thrown out the window. From now on, only call/text a girl ONCE for each time the two of you are supposed to chill. If she responds, she's interested. If she doesn't, she's either not interested, or giving you the flake test. Either way, you should just try to set up a meeting again. Just remember to not be too eager, and to NOT make it seem like her flaking affected you in any way.

alright, i had a feeling i kind of did too much, but ill do that
anyone else have any more tips other than that?
ive improved from where i started though i can tell you that

 

[dude156]

Here's my texting secret line...

"Are you gay?"

text game

soniq: are you gay?
hb: umm no why
soniq: i just realised i don't have any gay friends
hb: oh ha ha me either
soniq: we should totally be gay together

haha is this really gonna work?

 

[Skilla_Staz]

If it doesn't, it's sure as hell funny.

 

[dude156]

As soon as you knew she was there you should have just found her and said f^ck the cell phone crap.

ok new girl goin on, i posted in new thread but we do alot of texting, she texts me alot though and i reply, is this okay or not okay?

 

[Skilla_Staz]

Gah, text, aim, myspace etc. I hate this stuff


Reply sometimes. Don't reply others. If you feel like it, do it. If you're busy, don't bother. If you're with friends, or another female, ignore it and respond to her later. After all, you can't always drop what you're doing and reply when she texts. You've got a life. Make sure she knows it.

 

[dude156]

ya thats normally what i do though, but if im just sitting here
or doin what ever watchin tv, etc
ill usually reply
but i use myspace to my advantage, all i do is all girls i could be possibly interested or that have friends that are hot, then i wait for them to message or comment me, that gives me the message they are interested in one way or another - friend or hookup
and being a friend aint bad, they have friends who have friends etc
goodstuff