"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My forehead sticks out like a caveman and has dips in it, my nose is short and fat, my eyes are small and beady, i got acne going, im pale, i have red hair, i'm only 5 foot 9 1/2in, one of my ears is pointy and the other isnt, and my hair line looks like ****.

But the good thing is I workout and have a killer body. That and my fake blue contacts are the only things I get complimented on. Sheesh, when a guy is as messed up as me, what is there to do? Game won't work if your as bad looking as me.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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...and you've been here for how long???

You need a tune up.

I hate to say it...but read the bible....





or something.
 
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My forehead sticks out like a caveman and has dips in it, my nose is short and fat, my eyes are small and beady, i got acne going, im pale, i have red hair, i'm only 5 foot 9 1/2in, one of my ears is pointy and the other isnt, and my hair line looks like ****.
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...and what does this have to do with attracting women? Men are attracted to the physical features of a woman. Women are attracted to a killer personality in a guy. Looks are only a bonus.

I agree with the others, go read the DJ Bible
 
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Originally posted by frivolousz21
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...00424&imageID=64366080&Mytoken=20050317132058

thats a pic of me..I can pull alot of women.

you do whatever you can to improve your looks..but ur confidence and attutide is what is lacking.

read the bible..do a bootcamp..and the ***** will flock to you.
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the problem is i do EVERYTHING everyday of my life to improve my looks. I've done tanning, proactiv soluation, medically prescribed acne stuff, special washes and cleansers, cologne, american eagle/preppy type clothes, fake blue eye contacts, ive dyed my hair brown about 20 times since i was 16 and I've been working out for years!

There is no way left I could improve my looks unless its plastic surgery
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Desdinova
...and what does this have to do with attracting women? Men are attracted to the physical features of a woman. Women are attracted to a killer personality in a guy. Looks are only a bonus.

I agree with the others, go read the DJ Bible
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I disagree , most girls I find attractive I think are attracted to looks, its simple, why when I go to the clubs or parties or anywhere these girls are saying how hot a guy is and how bad they want him (im in college remmeber).
 
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I realize this...I am also 5 7...more lik 5 6 and half.


and Im sure most women when they look accross the room..probably skip over me..or say someone else is hotter...well maybe not.I know im not ugly.

but!

that dont mean ****...GO talk to them..and if you have it..charm, confidence, wit..a hand full of things..you will CREATE AN EMOTIONAL REPSONSE..and that is the key to her heart and *****!
 
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Quit wasting money on all that 5hit because you don't need it.

I've done tanning
Don't need it.

fake blue eye contacts
For what? You don't need them.

ive dyed my hair brown about 20 times since i was 16
What the hell for?

Why are you doing all this 5hit? Because you're not attractive enought to the opposite sex? If that's the reason why you're doing all this crap, you've got self-esteem issues.

these girls are saying how hot a guy is and how bad they want him (im in college remmeber).
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I don't care where you are, and you haven't read the damn DJ bible. You'd know that women don't necessarily mean what they say. If a woman initially finds a guy physically attractive, but then meets him and he puts her on a pedestal and recites love poems to her, the attraction drops.

Again, looks are only a bonus. Positive body language will attract a woman much more effectively than good looks..
 
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as soon as you start focusing on what you do have and using that to your advantage...your game will become crazy. You work out and got abs...use what you have dude. sooner you realize this...sooner you will see better results
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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