"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What to do next ?

ashman1

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Alright, so iv'e been going on about this girl that im into
for a while now , i called her last week . and posted the minutes of the
convo on this board .

I asked her " when was a good time to call her " She told me to " call her whenever i want to " - what does this mean ?

does this mean she doesn't care when i call beacuse , she really wants
to talk to me or ...

does it mean that she dosent care when i call , shes not going to answer ?
so i hesitate to call her again . its been almost 4 days since i called her
and im wondering what to do next .

im endevoring to break out of the " freind zone " so i dont want to come across as that , but i dont want wait too long , beacuse we are two busy people and i dont want to lose my spot - yknow ?

so i need some DJ advise ! What do i do next ? - N :woo:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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you are a loser.


calling whenever you want to means, call her whenever you want to, Loser.

freaken hell, this board is full of re tards.
you are now timing the days you call her?
Do you get bonus points if you call her after 5 days?
Bonus points after 3 days?

What are you a freaken short bus rider?

SHTTTTTTTTT
CALL HER WHEN YOU WANT TO
LOL holy **** crazzzyy, can't believe some dood on the internet is nerding over call her whenever you want to
 

ashman1

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jcap said:
freaken hell, this board is full of re tards.
you are now timing the days you call her?
Do you get bonus points if you call her after 5 days?
Bonus points after 3 days?

What are you a freaken short bus rider?

SHTTTTTTTTT
CALL HER WHEN YOU WANT TO
LOL holy **** crazzzyy, can't believe some dood on the internet is nerding over call her whenever you want to
you funny as hell dude ! :crackup:

oh and by BTW you on this board too , so thake that you retarded B1tch ! :D
 
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