What To Do Next

[CORVETTE06]

Past history:

2 weeks ago: Me and the girl went to a bar for drinks

1 week ago: Me and the girl went out on a dinner/movie date. We had a great time. The girl invites me in her house but I decided not to make a move.

I call her two days after the date to see if she needed help with something she mentioned. She says yes, and that she will call me on Thursday (today)

Thursday came and she didnt contact me until 5:30. She texted me and said she fell asleep. (She had a very busy week with studying and various other things that I will not go into) I texted her back and eventually asked her what she was doing. She said she was going 2 our college's basketball game and then probably out. I was with my friend so I just wrote back I'm with my friend (I didnt feel like being a stalker and going to the game too since she didnt ask me to go -- I didn't feel like going there anyway)

Shes going home for a week and wont be back here until the end of the month.

What should my next move be?

 

[tsmith2334]

She seems to be losing interest, but you can probably still win her back. Hmmmm. I know guys who have come back from a lot worse. Smart move to not invite yourself to the game. Very smart.

From here, I'd do a small "test". Send her a funny text, write on her facebook wall, iniate some kind of contact. See how (or if) she responds. You should be able to read how interested if she is and if she was excited to hear from you. That should help things.

From there, be patient. The end of the month is what -- ten days away? No need to rush things.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

Wait a second .. She said she's tired to do something with you and said that she was going to basketball game than out ????

Next that b1tch .

Just forget about her .. Act normally , and have fun with other girls , friends ..

Thats all ...

If she's still interested she will run after you ..

If u run after her youll show yourself as a needy man .. And thats worst thing that can happen ..

Trust me ive NEXT tons of girl that showed very very little amount of disinterest .. even when we were in relationship ..

And guess what , most of them after some days , always wanted to come back to me and still want ..

 

[Gangster Of Love]

Ok, couple of questions:

1. Why did you go to date/movie??? Guys never get it. Believe me, it took me years to get this.

2. Why didn't you make a move??? Because you didn't want to risk it. You were too attached to the outcome.

3. Why didn't you tease her, give her $hit for her "falling asleep"?

4. Why did you ask her what she was doing? You need to tell her, "Hey, let's get together at __pm,etc. etc." Then led her follow your lead. If she's planning on getting out of that one, she will have to do some work, don't give her the easy way out to reject you.

Not being negative with you, its just that this type of situation will come up again for you, and will come up for all of us unless we start handling these situations better.