"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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what to do in this situation?

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what do you do if you've been hooking up with a girl for awhile (a few months), her interest level seems high, shes calling you everyday, but one night terribly goes wrong?

you call her, and she doesn't pickup. you see her later that night with her friends, and she claims her phone doesn't work and she needs to fix it. she then proceeds to tell you that shes going over to her friend's house (guy's) with her and her two friends just to drink a little bit

heres the breaker; you see her the next day on a date with someone else and she's talking on her phone. double whammy! this blindsided me like no other cause the girl has been real interested and suddenly something happend.

so what do i do? i know that she saw me with this other guy, cause she was making an effort to hide in his car, but she doesn't know for a fact that i know. do i just wait till she calls and act like nothing happend? should i just let her concience eat away at her, or should i be direct and ask her what happend that day?

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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are you both exclusive? NO? then shes done nothign wrong except try and spare your feelings by covering up shes f**king some one else. go out and see other girls you know she is doing the same so dont invest all your energys into her.

you need to ask yourself what you want from this girl and act accordingly. if you just want to f**k her then curb the jelousy **** if you see her with another guy. if you want her in a relationship then take the steps to be in one with her. its about what YOU want out of her not what she wants out of YOU. change the script around. let her see you with other girls. tell her about the other girls you are dating. you will see how she reacts to that.

as for the next time she phones act like it aint **** because it aint! you can mention that you saw her but do not question her. if she offers and explanation then take it from her in an aloof manner as if it doesnt bother you at all!!
 
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If you are exclusive then raise hell. If not, do nothing.
 
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