"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What to do in Italy?

hope7

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Just found out my family is going to Italy in Fall. We don't know anyone there or know what to do there. Any suggestions?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ken785

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Italian women are sooo fine!!!! You can approach with -

"Hello...do you speak English?"

...easiest approach ever in a foreign country, and if you meet a tourist -

"Hello, Where are you from?"
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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hope7 said:
Just found out my family is going to Italy in Fall. We don't know anyone there or know what to do there. Any suggestions?
Find some of the local guys and hang out with them. Watch them operate, ask questions, watch the reactions of the women. Take it all in and rebuild yourself from what you learn. I'm not saying imitate what they do, learn what they do and incorporate it into a better you.
 

hope7

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lol, I'm not going to approach women, I'm going to have fun with my family.
 

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Daddy The Pimp said:
Cold approach like a robot .

You're not gonna see them again , never .
HAHA, true. I hooked up w/1 and continue to attract more of their kind ;)
 
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