"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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what to do in a situation like this.

avrilishot

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So today i went to the bank, and anyways there was a lady working there so just to be friendly I try talking to her. So I would ask a question she would answer and to me it seemed like she just wanted to say shut the fvuck up. Also there wasnt anyone around either.

so what should I do next time im in a situation like this?:(
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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avrilishot

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wow thank you I learned smething.


It was weird though the lady seemed nice but turned into a *****, it was weird.
 

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'Poor women is probably just being starved of c.ock.'

that's all you need to think the next time a womren is funny with you and just take it on the chin.

G-man
 

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Mind you, there's nothing wrong with what you did, but she probably felt like you were attempting to come on to her so she reacted accordingly. She was just a plain *****, that's all.
 

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Originally posted by The_Shezzler
What exactly did you say and what type of body language were you conveying to her?

This may be the reason!

Need the convo so i can be sure though..

Sarge on...

Heres what I said.

me-so how are you?
her-good.
me-so have you been busy today.
her-in the moring only.

thats all I said and then she looked pissed off. i dont understand.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Uhhh...it's not a good idea to joke about robbing the bank while you're in the bank.
 

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Yes, but some here might use that script verbatim, hence the disclaimer.
 
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