"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What to do if you messed up?

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REPEM

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Got drunk and accidentally telegraphed a bit too much interest. Terrible terrible mistake on my part. I know.

Is there any way to recover from this or should I just say F it and move on?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Mantis Toboggan

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Move on. You ruined it.





Just kidding. You didn't give us ANY information on what you said.
 
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cmr662

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Mantis Toboggan said:
Move on. You ruined it.





Just kidding. You didn't give us ANY information on what you said.
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lol, nothing better than reading stuff like this for a good laugh! Haha
 
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Chromeo

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F it. If your girl still likes you she'll come back, you didnt bang the girl so if she has a problem with it, shes got low self esteem. Ya maybe you were interested with this girl, but did you go home with her? no your girl should feel like a queen
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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falconslax89

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Chromeo said:
F it. If your girl still likes you she'll come back, you didnt bang the girl so if she has a problem with it, shes got low self esteem. Ya maybe you were interested with this girl, but did you go home with her? no your girl should feel like a queen
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lol he didnt cheat on his girlfriend...he got drunk and showed too much affection towards a girl he likes. atleast thats what im getting out of this.

i wouldnt worry about it man, but then again, you didnt really tell us what exactly happened. elaborate maybe..
 
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