"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What to do if you messed up?

REPEM

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Got drunk and accidentally telegraphed a bit too much interest. Terrible terrible mistake on my part. I know.

Is there any way to recover from this or should I just say F it and move on?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Mantis Toboggan

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Move on. You ruined it.





Just kidding. You didn't give us ANY information on what you said.
 

cmr662

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Mantis Toboggan said:
Move on. You ruined it.





Just kidding. You didn't give us ANY information on what you said.
lol, nothing better than reading stuff like this for a good laugh! Haha
 

Chromeo

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F it. If your girl still likes you she'll come back, you didnt bang the girl so if she has a problem with it, shes got low self esteem. Ya maybe you were interested with this girl, but did you go home with her? no your girl should feel like a queen
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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falconslax89

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Chromeo said:
F it. If your girl still likes you she'll come back, you didnt bang the girl so if she has a problem with it, shes got low self esteem. Ya maybe you were interested with this girl, but did you go home with her? no your girl should feel like a queen
lol he didnt cheat on his girlfriend...he got drunk and showed too much affection towards a girl he likes. atleast thats what im getting out of this.

i wouldnt worry about it man, but then again, you didnt really tell us what exactly happened. elaborate maybe..
 
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