"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I was born with a medical condition involving my bladder and I had to have a major operation. This surgery saved my life but it affected the growth of my penis. I have a 3 inch erection that points straight up pressing against my body. Put your thumbs on top of each other and thats basically my ****. I could live with that but I cant get a condom to stay on by itself and if it does stay on for a few minutes it kills my erection. So I'm thinking how am I suppose to **** because I cant do it without a condom. Is there any point in looking for girls if you cant **** them?

I feel like this is what is holding me back from getting girls. I found this site a few years ago and I'm alot more outgoing now even my friends notice it. But I still got no girls and I dont know what to think.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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mrjackson said:
I was born with a medical condition
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See a doctor. You won't get any useful/practical/productive advice here since your condition is a medical condition. Consult a urologist (or family physician).
 
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That sucks dude. I don't know what to say. I think you might be on the wrong site.
 
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Have you heard of jelqing? I dont know if it will help your condition, but it helped me, and I now have a healthier, fuller, and thicker erection which I'm proud of. Give it a shot, if at all possible...Type jelq in to youtube and there's a guy who gives a quick summary of it with a link where he explains it all for free. Other than that, maybe work out and try to have a great body. Hope it all works out for you.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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...hmm and I thought I had a small penis...(5 1/2 ..or 5 3/4 lol) sorry dude. But you shouldnt really care about how big your penis is....the whole porn world made EVERY man insecure hell when you see an 9ft c0ck going into a women and your jerking to it with a 5 it feels intimidating, I say live your life bro IF and I stress IF you cant seem to get over it I say get some help either medically or psychologically. Good luck.
 
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Yeah I'd look into those jelqing/stretching exercises. Too many people have claimed results from it for it not to work.
 
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mrjackson said:
I was born with a medical condition involving my bladder and I had to have a major operation. This surgery saved my life but it affected the growth of my penis. I have a 3 inch erection that points straight up pressing against my body. Put your thumbs on top of each other and thats basically my ****. I could live with that but I cant get a condom to stay on by itself and if it does stay on for a few minutes it kills my erection. So I'm thinking how am I suppose to **** because I cant do it without a condom. Is there any point in looking for girls if you cant **** them?

I feel like this is what is holding me back from getting girls. I found this site a few years ago and I'm alot more outgoing now even my friends notice it. But I still got no girls and I dont know what to think.
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Have you tried to purchase condoms online? Perhaps you can find someone who carries various sizes (perhaps outside of North America).

If the size of your penis does not bother you, you do not have a problem. You initially state that you don't mind it so much but then go on to say that it has been holding you back from "getting girls." Are you saying that it doesn't bother you but you are still weary of how it will be received by a prospective partner?

Learn how to use your entire body to pleasure a woman. Women are not nearly as obsessed with penis size as men are. You could have a 9" penis and be a total dud in the bedroom if you don't know what to do with it (or your hands or mouth for that matter).
 
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Master Bates said:
Yeah I'd look into those jelqing/stretching exercises. Too many people have claimed results from it for it not to work.
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what would this do for someone with a normal sized ****? does this **** realy work?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I reccomend to give her stimulation in other fashions: licking, fingering, eating..ect ect.. at the same time she can give you BJ, hand job, ect ect...

I would look into that Jelq thing the others posted... and have you actually talked to a doctor about this?... I assume you have.

Difficult situation, no doubt.. You're alive and your life was saved, so that is the most important..
 
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You ****ing believe that you are the ****!!!!
Thats what you do!!!!

AND REMEBER THAT NONE IS ABOVE YOU!!!!!!

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more important how you use it than the size, im sure thats what 90% of women would say
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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