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what to do if you don't like to drink

poohead

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so i went clubbing last night. the amount of hot girls just blew my mind. i have seen the light, so to speak. beats the *hell* out of looking for cute girls at the supermarket.

however there is a problem: i like to drink, but one or two a night is enough for me. i don't like getting s*** faced, my tolerance is low, and i like it that way. i don't like waking up the next day hung over, with a headache and a stomach ache. at the same time, when i am drunk i am more inclined to be sociable and approach.

what's the best thing to do in this situation.
 

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Tomatoes

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I am the same way. I dont like to get hammered....it seriously hampers your game anyways because you say stupid stuff and cant think fast. Best thing to do is find a happy medium. A place in tipsy where you still have full cognative thought but at the same time you want to enjoy yourself and have a laugh. Experiment drinking diffrent amounts diffrent nights. See how you do. Everyones threshold is diffrent and everyone enjoys diffrent things so its not something we can really advise you on......

ie...drink 3 and 3/4 beers to reach perfect pulling prowess.....you need to work on it yourself. Its all pros and cons really....Just need to find a middle you are happy with.
 

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When others are drinking/drunk they usually aren't aware if other people around them are sober or drunk. If you have a glass in your hand (could be just pepsi) they assume you're partying, too.

Have 2-3 drinks and get a little buzz on and then switch to just non alcoholic drinks for the rest of the night. When you feel that little buzz start to wear off, maybe have another drink.

No one needs to know you're almost sober.

I'm starting to hate getting drunk, as well, and this tactic has worked fine... plus you keep your wits so it's actually the best way. A few drinks to relax and pull chicks but not enough to get sloppy and say stupid things.
 
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