"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
What to do if someone wants to fight you?
- Thread starter Joeybphs
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
CarlitosWay
Master Don Juan
You tell him....Let's meet up at so and so boxing/mma gym in 6 months and we'll throw on some gloves.Joeybphs said:
Than if he obliges....take some training lessons and go at it, yet I'm sure he'll punk out.
Or tell him bring one of your friends and I'll bring one of mine. Tell him no weapons of any kind except fists and some gloves. Find a desolate place to meet him up at, some random field. Abandoned warehouse and you both duke it out.
or you can do what my buddy does, is as soon as he starts acting like tough **** walk to him with upmost confidence, put your hands behind your back and tell him "Go ahead swing at me" "Yet I'll tell you one thing you better knock me the **** out, cause you don't want me getting back up" and see what happens. Be prepared for the swing, cause after that first initial attack from him, you're just acting in self-defense and can lawfully whoop his ass/protect yourself (as long as you don't go crazy overboard, you'll win in court)
Here's some ideas courtesy of Bas Rutten as far as moves go. Be warned, you can get in serious trouble...so use them wisely. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D3K-mrlYG7Y
MrP
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BongDuy
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Hopefully you didn't do anything to start this problem as well ( like stealing a girlfriend, denting their car, talking smack behind their back)
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Aazman
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e.g if he says hey ******** what you looking at?
Not you, that girl right behind you. DOn't you think she's fit? (obv when there isn't a girl there)
a good example is I was told by a groupie of badboys in their car- your zips undone! ( i was wearing sweat trousers)
"Sorry my bad, your mom forgot to point that out"
If it gets into a fight- so be it. Apart from gyming- fighting is great fun.
But as the earlier post said- most fights never happen.
eaglez1177
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You've got to explain more. Is this just literally for no reason whatsoever and the kid just doesnt like you? If you have no strong reason to fight, then dont fight. Who gives a fvck if people call you pvssies. You shouldnt give a sh*t about what they think. And idk where you're from but in a lot of places kids can pull knives and guns out in fights. Not good.Joeybphs said:
Nino-Tk
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if he swings on though, by all means finish it
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If you do fight, make sure you win
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Cockynfunny
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Next time he squares up to you
Eather escalate by pushing back
or Punch him in the face and keep at it untill the fight is over
or Kick him in his balls........yeah yeah, dirty but don't forget that he wants to hurt you. - The Alpha/Beta way of sorting it out
But the best way is to talk him down, make him emberassed in a way that he will be judged by others in the class or whatever - The Alpha way of sorting things out.