"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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what to do if he actually comes?

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udontknowme

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First of all, im a girl.

Ok, so there is this guy that asked me to tell him when im gunna be working so he can come visit me. He has also asked me when my next day off was gunna be but i had to work alot that week and honestly didnt know. Anyway, im gunna do what he asked me to do and tell him when im working so he can come visit me...but im nervous about what do if he actually comes. I mean he will either come when the place i work at is stil open, or he will come when we are closed and then we will just chill in the office. But im nervous, i mean i wouldnt know what to do or what to say and i dont want to be boring. I want there to be stuff for us to talk about, so its not a waste of a trip for him to come down to see me.

I actually think it would be better for me to go visit him at his work, because it would be more interesting seeing where his new job is and what its like and stuff, instead of him coming back to where he used to work and seeing the same old stuff again. Me going there would give us more to talk about, but everyone says me going to see him would seem like i was chasing him.

I dont know. He asked me to tell him, so im gunna. But what should i do if he comes? Any ideas?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Morphiex

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first of i would like to say

this is Don Juan discussion forum , not debbie juan, make a site for girls to share theyr problems we have no idea we are men....
Either go to ihaveboyproblems.com or google some site that can help you....

second of all :
dobnt go to his place cuz then hell think ur chasing him...
and talk about what u talk about over millions of topics u can discuss , talk about ur favortie movie for all i care....
Hes not gonna really listen all hes gonna think about is how to get u in his bed naked as soon as possible, he may nod a couple of times to make it look like hes litsning, but in the end men are men we want sex all the time.....

buh bye
 
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