"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What to do if a chick starts bragging about the hot guys she's hooked up with?

iamnobody

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expos said:
When a girl does this, they are trying to justify their own value and make you think that they are a catch. That she is desired and that every man wants to be with her. That you should work harder to and continue to chase her. The reality is that you are the prize now and she should be chasing you.

I had an ex tell me how "muscular" her ex-bf was. So I decided to creep his Facebook page out of boredom and saw a guy who was essentially fat and husky. Their was nothing athletic about the guy at all. She also went on to tell me about another bf who was a "professional" mountain biker, so I looked him up and noticed that he actually sucked and was being beaten by novice weekend warriors.

It's just another tactic by a woman to inflate her own ego. Ignore that BS and focus on you!
I couldn't help but notice that when a chick tells you something like this about an ex it's the exact opposite in fact. Expos is right but I think it could be a bit more than inflating her own ego, in fact it could be that she sees you as a prize and has to downgrade you one way or another. Anyhow, it's a ballad in the key of low self esteem from the chick.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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donking

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my last two relationships, the chicks always asked if my exes were pretty. granted I was in better shape back then haha.

if a chick talks about other guys, eject.
 
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