okay so i've been here for a little less than a month now and trust me i've learned a lot. However hangign out with this girl just makes me realize just how much of an AFC I actually am. This girl a HB 9 is just drop dead gorgeous. Its blantantly obvious that she wants me. She invites me everywhere, wants to hang out with me every night, and just eveything else she does just makes me think more and more that she wants me. Heres where my problem is. Of all the times I've hung out with her I've NEVER used kino or anything. I'm just so fkin intimidated by her (every other girl I'm fine with). Last night was the first night I initiated eye contact and I saw a positive response but what can I do to help me use some kino and get closer to this girl?
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
what to do? i realize i'm an AFC lol
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I stole this tip from someone else on the board, whoever it is, props.
Imagine the ugliest, bitchiest girl ever. While your with this HB, that girl is over on the other side of the room saying "You little fucking pussy, you don't have the balls to do anything with this girl. You'll be stuck with a girl like me for the rest of your life!"
It works for me
Imagine the ugliest, bitchiest girl ever. While your with this HB, that girl is over on the other side of the room saying "You little fucking pussy, you don't have the balls to do anything with this girl. You'll be stuck with a girl like me for the rest of your life!"
It works for me
Well seeing as you hang out with this girl all the time, what are you nervous about? You probably know a lot about her, and shes probably comfortable around you. Just read up on kino, flirt with her, then try to kiss her.
Tboner
Don Juan
Keep studying the game. Keep up the EC. Start kino very lightly. When talking to her touch the middle of her back. Then take it away. Come back with slightly more later. Keep cycling this on and off while escalating each time. Watch her reactions. If she's interested, she'll kino you when you pull back.
Visualization helps. Picture this HB9 as insecure about her looks, intelligence, abilities, etc. because they all are. Flirt with other girls in front of her for social proof.
I can think of three different reasons why a woman would want a man. Two are positive and one is negative. You'll never know where you stand until you "put the moves on her".
If she has sexual interest, she will respond positively.
If she wants you to be a real friend, she will politely stop you. In this case, she can provide social proof and even set you up with her hot friends. If you want to hang with her, it's cool. This is a balanced friendship.
If she gets pissed and says LJBF or says "I'm just not ready yet" or some BS like that gives you hope, but delays it, then beware she might be a user. The kind that wants everything non sexual that you can provide (time, money, favors) without providing you what you want (hot chicks).
Visualization helps. Picture this HB9 as insecure about her looks, intelligence, abilities, etc. because they all are. Flirt with other girls in front of her for social proof.
I can think of three different reasons why a woman would want a man. Two are positive and one is negative. You'll never know where you stand until you "put the moves on her".
If she has sexual interest, she will respond positively.
If she wants you to be a real friend, she will politely stop you. In this case, she can provide social proof and even set you up with her hot friends. If you want to hang with her, it's cool. This is a balanced friendship.
If she gets pissed and says LJBF or says "I'm just not ready yet" or some BS like that gives you hope, but delays it, then beware she might be a user. The kind that wants everything non sexual that you can provide (time, money, favors) without providing you what you want (hot chicks).
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It would be kinda awkward if you just all of a sudden started to use kino, so i suggest slowly start it up. Also acuse her of trying to sleep with you tell her " i know u just wanna hang because you wanna sleep with me, but we gotta slow down" or something like that.
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Lets say you two are walking and someone drops something, she picks it up and hands it to the person.You say great job, and give her a rub on the back.In return(if shes interested at that point) she will touch you in some way as well.If she doesnt keep tryin.
Make The HO Say NO-Gunwitch.
brenbaus
Senior Don Juan
Look, heres how it goes when you turn from AFC and keep your HB friends, LET THEM IN SLOWLY. You already know her, because she is your "friend" whether or not you see her as more, you are just friends right now, so you shouldn't feel intimidated by her. If there is one thing I have learned from these forums, its that HBs are just like anyone else, make her need you and want you. Next time you see her, lead her around by putting your hand on the small of her back, just do stuff like that, and she will melt into your arms.
Tboner
Don Juan
On kino, what I mean is:
Start with middle back and progress to more intimate touching.
1. middle back, hands, lower back
2. thigh (not the inner part), butt, inner arm
3. hair, upper chest (not breasts), feet
4. Save the most intimate parts for later
You can advance to one of these more intimate places if you touch it and talk about it. Like noticing her earrings, necklace, tattoo or even better if she brings it up. Like when she says "Don't I have a nice butt?" or "nice legs".
Turn it on and off and watch her reaction. Her reaction, positive or negative, should guide the pace at which you proceed.
If's she's interested in you, she will enjoy the kino. When you stop kino, she will kino you to get you started again.
Start with middle back and progress to more intimate touching.
1. middle back, hands, lower back
2. thigh (not the inner part), butt, inner arm
3. hair, upper chest (not breasts), feet
4. Save the most intimate parts for later
You can advance to one of these more intimate places if you touch it and talk about it. Like noticing her earrings, necklace, tattoo or even better if she brings it up. Like when she says "Don't I have a nice butt?" or "nice legs".
Turn it on and off and watch her reaction. Her reaction, positive or negative, should guide the pace at which you proceed.
If's she's interested in you, she will enjoy the kino. When you stop kino, she will kino you to get you started again.
brenbaus
Senior Don Juan
Why would it be wierd to grab her hand? She likes it, so do it.
arutha
Senior Don Juan
I was hoping for a good reply to that too because I also think it could be kinda weird..
I think you need to pick your moment, either do it when you first start walking somewhere or wait maybe until she says something about the surrounding? 'This place is so pretty' (agree and grab her hand with a smile)
I think you need to pick your moment, either do it when you first start walking somewhere or wait maybe until she says something about the surrounding? 'This place is so pretty' (agree and grab her hand with a smile)
stop hanging out wit her everytime she askes you. say ur busy. then that'll make her want u more, hopefully, then on the times u do go out, which u still do but not ALL THE TIME put some kino on. and if she says u changed somehow. say i just needed some time to think. and then u'll be makin her think A LOT. and then one day ask her out. bam! u got her!
i just made tat up right now. yea....
i just made tat up right now. yea....
Somthing i use is when im with a chick i tell her hey can u hold this whith one hand reached out to her closed (u dont really have anything in ur hand) and when she puts her had under to hold whatever is in ur hand u grab her hand and just act like nothing happend