"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What to do for vday. With girl I've been dating for a month?

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gimmeyofonenumba

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We've stayed over at each other's place 6 or 7 times now. She is really into me, strokes my ego, compliments, cooks,etc. I'm Blessed, so far she seems like a great girl. I'm curious as how to do vday. I feel like I atleast need to do something. I was thinking of sending flowers, with a note attached telling her to meet me somewhere. Then I was wondering if that seems too afc?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

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It sounds like you've found a nice girl and might be at the start of an LTR. Or she's at least the main girl you're seeing at the moment.

Just go and buy a few things for a small picnic and take her down to the beach, or lake, or whatever nice spot is near you. No need for gifts.
Suggest you go pick her up though, not tell her to meet you somewhere.
 
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