What to do for the time being?

[tom121]

Now I won't go to college until beginning of January, which I have about a month of spare time.

I went out to look for jobs, I got about 5 interviews, all of them mention they are looking for someone who will work for at least 6 months, not just for one month period. So I continue looking, all the same.

So everyone I talk to is busy-ing at school and personal life, I don't have much of hobbies other than playing sports like basketball and skateboarding. It's getting cold and rainy lately and will continue for a while. So I often just stay home sleep a lot, play PS2, computer games.

What else can I do? Now if you say go out and meet people, I am shy, not outgoing, and open up quickly to somebody I just met...

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Meet new people by finding new hobbies...

 

[tom121]

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Meet new people by finding new hobbies...

read my last sentence, plus people around my age are often at school

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Then just troll around online if that's all you're willing to do.

I don't get it, you b1tch and whine about how things aren't to your liking but you aren't willing to change it.

 

[jakethasnake]

You dumbazz.

Things to do:


1. Work out.

2. Go on a mountain hike.

3. Go to the golf practice range.

4. Go surfing/body boarding.

5. Go sarge by yourself.




It's fvcking California - there are SO MANY THINGS TO DO, even if you're by yourself. I'm stuck in the shytty North East, and you're bytching about being in beautiful Southern California.

 

[Derek Flint]

Originally posted by tom121
read my last sentence, plus people around my age are often at school

You have a month to work on one of your weaknesses.

Go to the mall. Start by making eye contact with 30 women a day.
Do not be the first one to break eye contact.

Do that for a few days.

After that, make eye contact, but this time smile. 30x per day for a few days.

After that, eye contact, a smile, and say "hi" Again, 30x per day.

Get to the point where you get enough confidence to start conversations, even if it's just asking the time of day or directions to a shop.


Keep progressing and expanding your comfort zone while you have the time.

It's not gonna happen overnight,, but it will help you out immensely as your confidence level and comfort level grows until it becomes 2nd nature.
You'll actually get to the point where you look forward to the "exercises" and how many positive responses you will get.
Soon, you will be engaging women in conversations and even getting digits and dates.
And you will feel comfortable doing it.

Either that, or you can sit around complaing about how hard it is for you to approach and meet women.
while looking at on-line porn and playing X-Box games.

I went to buy a shirt today to go clubbing tomorrow night, and the malls were packed with fly slims. This on a Tuesday afternoon.

Imagine what it's going to be like after Thanksgiving when Christmas shopping season officially starts.

And I talked to 2 women from my walk from my car to the front door of Macy's just for practice.

Talk about a target rich environment.

I wish I had a free month to work on my skills.

It's like bodybuilding: You don't get big muscles overnight - you have to progressively build them up over a period of time and maintain them as well.

Same thing with social skills.

 

[tom121]

Francisco d'Anconia:

that's not what I am willing to do, I'd rather go out then stay home wasting time but there isn't much to do out.

jakethasnake:

I don't live in Cali, I live in Canada and it's freaking rainy and cold lately I work out at home since I got the equipment I needed.

Derek Flint:

that's the problem I have, the girls usually break off the eye contact first. As for smiling, I need to work on that.

 

[jakethasnake]

Oh ****, didn't know you lived in such a shythole. But I don't care- you can still go out. Anywhere.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

There are so many honeys in the GWN, I'd be ferocious if I was up there. I'd hit Toronto quicker than a heartbeat if I had a chance to do some business up there.

 

[tom121]

bump