I was at a party last night, and my friend and I were both interested in the same girl. I ended up kissing her and stopped us after just the kissing. However, today I found out that he has had sex with her multiple times and I don't if he has any hard feelings torwards me now. Before, I saw it as just a game between us to see who could get the chick but I didn't know that they had done anything. What should I do?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What to Do For My Friend
- Thread starter dirtyvibe
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
The Juan and only
Master Don Juan
Just explain what happened. If he's a good enough friend then he'll understand. Don't try to make up any bull**** lies because that will probably backfire on you.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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Like Juan said. Be straight and tell him you didn't know. If he's cool, he ought to be ok with it...
Hunterchilla
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ya tell him u didnt know,
i mean id feel WIERD about it if my friend is hooking up with my EX, but i wouldnt stop him.. and if she broke up with me, and I still really liked her, then Id confront my friend about it and tell him not to.
I mean if he REALLY cares about her, like LOVES her or something and your just trying to "hit it" then u should find a different girl. But if its just some girl he hooked up with any deosnt have any real feelings for then hit it, and forget about ur stupid friend.
pluss id have to say if it costs ur friend ship forget about the girl, find another GIRL because friends are hard to come by and chicks u can find anywhere.
i mean id feel WIERD about it if my friend is hooking up with my EX, but i wouldnt stop him.. and if she broke up with me, and I still really liked her, then Id confront my friend about it and tell him not to.
I mean if he REALLY cares about her, like LOVES her or something and your just trying to "hit it" then u should find a different girl. But if its just some girl he hooked up with any deosnt have any real feelings for then hit it, and forget about ur stupid friend.
pluss id have to say if it costs ur friend ship forget about the girl, find another GIRL because friends are hard to come by and chicks u can find anywhere.