what to do bout her flirting

[CribMaster345]

iono ..it just makes me mad that i told this girl i love her & told her all this **** & she still flirts w/ other guys in the school, & she has a boyfriend but he doesn't go to our school. she's madddd flirtish, & i was just wondering if this is normal cuz all it does is **** wit my head & make me wanna off her

also i wanna know what i should do bout it, & she has a party this weekend you can check my other thread bout it, & i know shes gonna be flirtin wit every guy there & gridin wit all these guys & **** ..& i'm wonderin if i should not go cuz i think it was jus cause me too much pain so ..what u all think of this?

 

[oakraiderz2]

You dont love anyone. Whats so special about her? If you wanna flirt with her do it. I know a girl like that and id love to get with her but im not gonna stress over it. Take shyt as it comes.

 

[blienk]

Dude, you gotta find another girl...Go to the party if you want, but go to check out the other girls, not her. Your oneitis is killing you.

 

[Symmetrical Perfection]

Never ever ever come on to strong. Bottom line you already have. Get your cool back bro. Just talk to her normally, don't overwhelm the conversation with emotions. Talk to her about this party, tell her she might see you up there if you feel upto it. Hopefully you'll get a positive response from her saying she wants to see you there and etc.

Just chill out about it for awhile
Ben

 

[Jester]

youre stupid.


i was going to tell you to dump her, but then iread your post, and youre not even dating her.


you suck

 

[AFK Protector]

Originally posted by Jester
youre stupid.


i was going to tell you to dump her, but then iread your post, and youre not even dating her.


you suck

WHOA WHOA!!! LET THE TRIGGER REST. Excuse our explosive friend Jester for a minute.

You won't believe it, but I was in the SAME EXACT SITUATION AS YOU. Thing is, I never told her how I felt, but i have a feeling people found out. Now I'm practically acting indifferent to her and even pushing her away. I think she's psised she can't contorl me anymore...and i'm satisfied. Yes, this IS soem serious ass oneitis. But before flaming you, let's consider some solutions.

1) You're gonna die...literally...if you keep pursuing this um..."socially active woman." (cough cough wh0re cough cough). I felt like I was gonna die when I found out she had a BF. I was DEVASTATED. I was like....****....I'm a loser....life isn't worth living. BUT ALAS!!! I chose the 2nd path...

2) Force yourself to forget her. I listed my goals. I focused on my goals. I forgot about her. I avoided her whenever I could, repied with short, vague answers, and basically stopped pursuing conversation with her. I wasn't being an ass. I just showed her my IL was in the negatives. Then...this new side of her came out and I didn't like it. So...she can go to hell with her BFs **** up her ass and I wouldn't lose a wink of sleep.

there are more...I just don't know them. Keep in mind, there are 3 billion women. She's just another one of them.

 

[mrsoy]

there are a couple girls i know who have bfs elsewhere and flirt a lot..kinda gay how they need to seek affection from everyone else

 

[CribMaster345]

i ****ing hate it with a passion

 

[NYC Dude]

Hate it with a passion, fine. But then why the hell don't you realize what you're doing? You hate her slutiness, but you still "love" her? WTF is wrong with your sorry ass? Get a grip on it man, before you end up destroying yourself over that slut.

 

[CribMaster345]

true ..

 

[AFK Protector]

....do you people just skip over my post or what...

 

[misunderstood??]

I'm surprised this hasn't been mentioned yet, but please read the bible (it should be a sticky at the top of the forum).

My suggestion is just move on and forget this girl. You can defianetly learn from what she is doing though. Odds are you are so interested in her largely because she is being a challenge as well as showing you she is desireable to other guys. You should take note and try to be more of a challenge yourself and flirt and be sociable with many other girls to show you are desireable also. Honestly though, don't even bother with this girl, I mean she even has a boyfriend, it can't be hard to find another girl.

 

[AFK Protector]

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

That's as SHIET LOAD harder than it sounds. Take it slow....and read my d@mn post.