"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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what to do after she's ur G/F

zx2not4u

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I have been analizing my last relationship and I know what I did wrong. I am too nice I am scared of KINO. My last relationship lasted 2 months an we kissed 2 times, because I was too nice an scared. Which killed her attraction to me. My delima is when in a relationship I feel like if I touch or try to kiss I become overwhelmed with fear. Rght before the first kiss I freeze, an when alone with a girl when I know I should make a move I am stuck frozen with fear of rejection, or what if's. Any ideas On how to take the awakwardness out of Kino?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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BrokenPath

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Dude... always know she wants you to kiss her.
If you don't kiss her then she's going to move on to a guy that will. Then guess what??? You're FVCKED.

Just put your hand on the side of her face and neck right under her ear. have your thumb on her cheek. look at her eyes.
AND GO BALLS OUT. don't go too fast don't go too slow.

Smooth. Just do it dude.

If you've been hanging out with this chick and SHE'S STILL HANGING OUT WITH YOU AND DOESN'T THINK OF YOU AS A FRIEND BY ALL MEANS YOU HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO GO FOR A KISS.
AND SHE WONT REJECT IT AS LONG AS SHE DOESN'T SEE YOU AS A FRIEND.

Seriously man.... just remember.. if you've been hanging out with her.. and she doesn't see you as a friend...

It's greenlight all the way.
 

phatman

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YOUR A DANG WUSS! BE A MAN! SHOW! HER UR A DON JUAN NOT A DON WUSSY!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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chill

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dude, do what i did. take the boot camp before you start posting. but just launch in. if you think too much, your goona freak your self out
 
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