Hey guys I need some good advice. I was with my ex for 2 yrs, she moved to my city, things were great, etc etc. I admittedly slipped, made myself too available and you know how it goes, she lost interest and left me. I don't want to bore everyone with the details. So I've been doing the NC thing for a few weeks, she tries contacting me on aim or chat from time to time but I either ignore or am short. Last night she texts my phone saying that I seem relieved that she isn't in my life any longer. She also mentioned how I never contact her and how it's nice to hear from me. I didn't respond as I'm not sure how to proceed. Any tips/insight from the community? We were truly happy and I DO want her back, but need to make changes in my own life first, and not put her life ahead of my own. I guess my question is how do I handle the questions about whether or not I am relieved not to be with her, it seems like a loaded question, and how does one pull out of NC successfully??
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