"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What to do after 8pm??

LegendBoy

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Is it me or after this time do you start feeling bored and unsure about things. Around this time is when you tend to think about a certain oneitis or just start to get depressing thoughts.

After getting smashed last weekend I really do not want to drink anymore maybe every 3 or 4 weeks as it is detrimental to my success in other areas of my life. But after about 8pm isn't there a limited amount of things to do?

Some might say read sosuave but reading a little is good I have noticed the more you read the more depressed you get lol..

Honestly everyone on this forum what do you's do after this time???

I have been trying to sleep earlier as well like 10.30pm
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Climax

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Have you ever heard of the word "nightlife" ?

[SIZE=-1]Results 1 - 10 of about 76,300,000 for nightlife [definition]. (0.13 seconds)

...

It only took me 0.13 seconds to find 76,300,000 links on things to do during the night.

[/SIZE]http://www.google.com <--- Google is your friend ;)


Laterz...
 

MAVER1CK

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jerk off and go to sleep.

wake up early and get some business going!
 

lordson

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grab some mates, and go to nightclub

who gives a **** if you can't dance

just go, dress up nicely (this can be fun), choosing nice outfit, grooming yourself in mirror,

get some eye contact, approach some wormen, who gives a **** if you get knocked back, youll never see them again in your lifetime

and if you dont have any friends, well... dunno
 

skip2mylou781

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if u REALLY dont wanna get out of the house, how bout hittin up chicks on myspace and maybe within an hour, u can get a few #s and set up a few dates........u can make ur dates for during the week and at 8PM, so now you will have somethin to do at 8.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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LegendBoy

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I can never judge a girl off myspace I have to see them in real life how they walk how they act are all important in who they are...

I mean during the days the club isn't open, and things you can do at home..
 

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ya

With school causing stress and my usuall way of doing way too much in a given day then 24hrs will allow causes me to be tired early in the evening. I love the nightlife and I love to go out with buddies but it just seams that outside of summer I cant muster the energy to have a great time at night unless I get to bed early for like two nights prior. Its weird how I have all this energy and feal great in the morning then when night comes I just can't think fast enouth to keep a conversation interesting. Im like a grumpy zombi lol.

Maby I need to take more naps.. I just feal that while im asleep there are women out there without the pleasure of my presence lol.

I just want to make my presence the most exciting and enjoyable thing they can get.
 

rrrrr

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play on the computer, watch TV, watch movies, read books, study the stock market, go to the gym.
 

Cod3r

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jerk off and go to sleep.
On that note... ;)


I wish I could get to bed before 2 00 am mannn, u got it good if you can get to sleep by 10 30, lucky bastard. I work 5 days a week for 12 hours a day and then go to school, hang with the gf for a while and either fvck, talk, eat and then its lights out for the remainder of my time..



-Cod3r
 

lordson

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yeah, put all of that negative energy and bad vibes into lifting some weights

the endorphin release shoulud also make you feel better
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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