What to do about my GF...

[andreus]

I've been going out with this girl for a couple of months (like 3ish), and things have been going pretty good. She's gorgeous, smart, funny, etc. However, she is a little bit obsessive sometimes and wants to spend all of her time with me. I'm not really keen on that idea, as great as time with her is.

I think this is my fault, as I accidentally used the "L" word already , while were making out one night. I want to know what I should do to get her a little "less interested" in me, as weird as that question may sound.

Thanks in advance!

 

[Axcell]

The best thing to do would be to TALK to her about it. If you want her to get less interested in you, become a little boring; but I do not see why you would want to do that!
You are lucky to have a girl so obsessive over you, especially if she is what you describe her to be. Many guys on this forum are experiencing the total opposite.
Let her know that your life is busy, and you have other things to do than spend time with her. Let her know she is somebody special in your life, but things cannot always be planned around her, because there are many other people in your life you need to spend time with.
Just talk to her and don't be too harsh. What kind of relationship do you have if you can't even talk to your girl and be honest with her?

 

[girl_in_a_boy_forum]

The best thing to do would be to TALK to her about it. If you want her to get less interested in you, become a little boring; but I do not see why you would want to do that!
You are lucky to have a girl so obsessive over you, especially if she is what you describe her to be. Many guys on this forum are experiencing the total opposite.
Let her know that your life is busy, and you have other things to do than spend time with her. Let her know she is somebody special in your life, but things cannot always be planned around her, because there are many other people in your life you need to spend time with.
Just talk to her and don't be too harsh. What kind of relationship do you have if you can't even talk to your girl and be honest with her?

Agreed.

Just talk to her. Tell her you have other things going on in your life and you need the space to do them.

 

[jtrain 289]

oh oh girl in a boy forum put up her picture she wants us to check her out lol

 

[Alkali]

If you said that you loved her it's strange that you'd want to spend less time with her.

One of my friends claims that he's in love (I don't believe him) and spends all his time with his girlfriend.

But then again he gets sex like crazy. Maybe that's your problem. Change the beat and enjoy her company in a different way?

 

[Bryce556]

give her to me if only i could get a gf for a birthday present

 

[Plec07]

I sometimes have the same problem with my GF mate. You gotta just tell em your busy and will see them another time. Keep it brief. My gal's rather understanding so she'll just pass it off and go see one of her mates.

What's really annoying is when your with them and all they wanna do is make out with you constantly while your trying to do something. Was with my gal today watching tv and trying to eat an ice cream with her and her bro and she'd randomly just spin round and kiss me. I was just like "wtf? leave me alone. I wanna eat my ice cream, B*tch!."

 

[thedeparted]

I think it's a bad sign, actually. She doesn't have a life, and she jumps in and out of relationships. In a couple months she'll be done with you and onto the next obsession. So keep a level head and keep your options open.

 

[girl_in_a_boy_forum]

oh oh girl in a boy forum put up her picture she wants us to check her out lol

???
That picture's been up for a long time, bro. And unless you have a horse fetish, not really.

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

while back, you had in your description about yourself that you were down to earth and random stuff and that "sorry guys i'm taken" message. is that right? cuz i'm not diggin your picture in that one... but your one long time ago when i checked... total babe.... it seemed.

 

[girl_in_a_boy_forum]

Yeah, I changed my picture because this one looks less flaunting. Plus, I really love my pony and he looked happy in a picture, for once. (He hates cameras.)