"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What to Cook for a Girl?

foomee

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So this weekend a girl is taking me out to dinner, buying me pizza. Then a few days later I'm going to cook for her. I know she loves beer, but I'm thinking of getting some red wine to add some fun.

But anyways, I need some ideas on what to cook. So my dilemma is that I'm working in CHINA, and I don't have an oven, only a single (hot plate)stove top burner thing. But I have all of the standard utensils, and some "rice-a-roni" from america. My plan is to cook the rice, since this girl has never tasted "San Francisco's 'American' rice". What is a good traditional "american" meal that I can cook for her? Keep in mind, my choices are limited because in China some foods from America might be scarce.

I was thinking corn on the cob, throw some butter on it. That's easy to cook. Or I can make mashed potatoes (but without gravy). So throw out some suggestions, I'm down to try any food. I'm not too worried, no matter what I cook she'll be happy, I just want to make a good "american" food impression, since this is a Chinese girl.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Rubirosa

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Go w/ what's gonna turn out good. Most chicks like salad. Keep it basic, but get some Japanese miso dressing. Stir fry some shrimp and vegetables...use garlic salt, pepper, sesame oil (just a little) and soy sauce. Go easy on the ingredients...it's like getting a haircut...you can always do more but you can't go back. The ethnicity of the meal doesn't matter. Make sure your place is CLEAN !!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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If you are going to go American, go American.

fry a steak or some pork chops.. I actually I prefer pork chops, make some mashed potatoes and gravy, some corn on the cob and a biscuit with some kool aid. that's gangsta right there.
 
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