"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What to buy.

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navyseal2101

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What are some good ideas to buy with christmas money? I have 250 left but no ideas of anyhing to buy. I want to spend it b/c I have a job for saving money and now I finally have some to spend. One thing I was looking at was Platnum Egoiste to complete my cologne collection, as I have more than I think I should have. Im going to the mall today so if anybody has any ideas id appreciate it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i like tech things. i'd probably spend it on...some DVDs, home theatre stuff. maybe some piano stuff.

it'll help alot if you wrote a little about your interests and what you have/don't have./need . we can't read your mind
 
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Well I just got a new weight set, cologne, im into games, I was thinking Unreal Tournament 3. I like sports also and training gear is good. I'm into mostly anything and one reason I asked was to hear about something new that might park my interest. Basiclly though anything flashy clothes wise as I like to stand out, games, sports equiptment, cologne, tech stuff, anything like that is a main interest.
 
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