"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What to buy to gf for Vday.

mustfirstregister

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Valentine's day is coming, it's just next door. what will you get to your girlfriend?
Any ideas? or should I get her nothing?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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PectoralisMajor

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Its a worry that you need to ask, but.

something PERSONAL always works well and shows you have thought about a present, rather than just buying 'something'.

e.g a photo album filled with holidays you've both been on, christmas, easter etc

a photo framed with both of you in.
 

alwayslead8821

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Yeah thats is very true pectoralismajor. Not the same old dozen roses or some ****. I always make a card myself but I'm pretty good at drawing and ****e. The Ex loved em though. Then something like he said
 
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