"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What to asnwer to:"What do you feel for me"?

Infraction

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Well, this girl was obssesed with me so firstly i didn't really want her.
After like 1 week i was able to talk and enjoy her company.
Now, 3 weeks after we met she sends me a SMS and she says there:"[my name], Tell me. What are your feelings twords me".

I think i should tell her the truth: that i am not madly in love with her but i really like her and i think we can get into a realshonship. And i think i will send her a SMS saying that i prefer to tell her face-to-face.
Thanks.
Opinoins?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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After being in several relationships you learn a lot.

When it comes to things like this, they should be handled delicately. Call me a woman for saying that, but it's true.

Take things slowly. You do not know if this person is good or bad for you initially. It takes time to see how things pan out, and if it will effect your life postively.

My girlfriend of 2 years is a prime example. She's drop dead gorgeous, which thank god kept me into her. But she wasn't as social as I'd like a girl to be. I was so close to telling her things weren't working out, but the sex was just too good. Keeping a girl that I didn't actually love right off the bat taught me something. It took me 3 - 4 months of getting to know her, to really know who she was. I soon came to actually love her for who she was. It was the best feeling in the world after having doubts just because she wasn't a chatterbox.

Anyways keeping it short, don't tell her there's no chance unless she's completely psycho, but don't tell her you want a relationship. Don't limit yourself to one girl unless you really feel the need to. Keep the door open, but don't push it open all the way. When the time comes, you will know when it's time to push open all the way and fall into relationship. Yes, fall, not force.
 

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I am going to tell her i enjot her company.
Thanks, ill post resualts tommrow.
 
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