Alright. Theres this girl I like. I think shes slightly older than me. Im 16 btw. I haven't spoken to her yet. I've tried to, but its difficult alright. Its like cat getting your tongue? Anyway, Im thinking of speaking to her, and if possble, get her number or ask her out. So, what do I ask? How do I make it sound casual? And how do I stay cool? My friend was suggesting that I borrow from her something, a pen or highlighter or something like that, but thats too lame, isn't it?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
What to ask?
- Thread starter Gungalley
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
wcknightjr
Don Juan
wtf, there's this lovely invention called the bible, it works 
idiot_boyfriend
Senior Don Juan
What do you ask?
This is my favorite: http://www.sosuave.com/halloffame/hall240.htm
How to stay cool?
Remember, you gave her the opportunity to go out with you. She should be thankful.
Good luck.
This is my favorite: http://www.sosuave.com/halloffame/hall240.htm
How to stay cool?
Remember, you gave her the opportunity to go out with you. She should be thankful.
Good luck.