"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Holland

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Well, about 8 months ago, there was this girl who was attracted to me, she was okay, but I wasn't interested that much.
By the end of the trip we were on she said:
"Maybe you noticed, but I like you. A lot."
I said "yea, that happens"
She then asked: "Do you feel the same way?" (about her).
I didn't know what to say so I just said something vague.

Does anyone have some suggestions to responding to something like that?

I mean, if I said: "yea, I like you too" that probably would take away the challenge to it and meant that 'the chase was over' and that I give in pretty easy and quick (since we only knew each other for a few days).
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Say something like, sure, as a friend.

But make sure she knows you're interested, she'll eat up the mixed signals.
 

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If she isnt your type, who cares move on. If u wanted her then i woulda reply'd with something like :"Haha, thats cute, ive known you for a couple days and your already trying to get in my pants... im not that easy"
btw never give a chick a straight answer
:woo:
 

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i would smile n say something like: "sure, if u have the face of liv tylor voice of cameron diaz body of catherine zeta jones." etc

the point is to tease her, create sexual tension while not giving her a straight answer so the challenge n fantasy are stil on
 

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Ummmmmmm.. the above replies are very interesting.

Tell her that she's cool and you'd like to get to know her better. This gives you time to fiure out waht you want to do. I'd say you can juss f*ck her and get some expereince.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Mmmm nice ideas.

It was kind of like 3 months after I started changing my behaviour and I didn't know what to do with it and thought, well I still thinks it's a tricky question, cause if you say you're not interested she's just gonna be like: "well ok, that sucks but that's the way it is" but if you admit it makes you come accros 'easy'. And giving a good answer where she can't do anything with is can be hard in the beginning. I tried it with: "well, I don't know, I don't you yet" back then.
But her sudden question made me pretty nervous so I ****ed up :p . But that's alright, I won't make that mistake again :)
 

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Tell her "if you play your cards right, you just might find out". Not only will this answer make you feel like a pimp, but itll also diffuse the question.
 

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I tried giving a chick a vague answer once and it backfired. She was like 'No, you tell me now, yes or no".

Haha
 

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Next time when she asks you smth like that, you should answer like this:
Well... hmmm... I'm used on that... girls like me a lot, but... i think you should try a little bit harder cuz i'm not that easy! (when saying this act like an alpha male mixing it with a little bit of narcisoidism):cool:
 

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Originally posted by DonSonnySagliani
you should answer like this:

:crackup:




Unlike this genius above us, I'm not telling you, you have to answer like this. BUT this is pretty good.

"I can show you better than I can tell you."



I don't like all the other answers because they are still beating around the bush. How much more do you want to tease. Honestly?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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