"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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niceguy91

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hey guys, its been a longg time since i've been on here and wow have i changed. in the past year and a half or so, i've put everything iv'e learned from this site into my daily life and now that i get girls pretty much left and right and i gotta say this.

this site in my opinion isnt (and for the admins correct me if i'm wrong plz) ment for you to become a player, but insted the tips that are shown in most cases help you to become a better person, more outgoing, social, and overall a better guy to be around. and this all starts by making your personal life better, by becoming more organized and changing the small things you do in your daily life that make you have more of a positive attitude, and this positive attitude makes girls more attracted to you.

i'm not all that good looking,but i'm not the worst either but i get so many georgous girls now simply because ive made my life better and i feel better.

so my one BIG tip is when you apply the things you learn on this site to your daily lives, do it to improve your self first, keep yourself in mind first. if you do that, then the girls will naturally come to you.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Voice

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This is really good to hear and is very inspiring. Can I ask how you did it? What did you change about yourself?
 

Masked_angel

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I agree :)
 

ssj4halo

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what advice would you have for someone whose education is really time consuming and is generally a boring person...as in, I am not that interesting to talk to because I don't know much about current events/people. Is it just my negative thoughts that I am boring that brings me down...

can boring people be the center of attention? I know you will say try new things...but thats all long term. How about short term? like right now?
 
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