"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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what this chick is given me to work with

duffman360

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so i broke my leg a month ago by December 13 i will be able to go to school.
i plan to start a convo with this girl but she is not givin me much to work with she use to bring a skate board to school last year. she goes to a all girl catholic school so dress code is like skirt,blouse, and shoos. ive noticed that besides the uniform she some times wheres jeens and a hoody so i can start a convo complementing what she is wearing. but most of the times she in wearing a skirt about knee high and a hoody. but i don't know how to start a convo base on that with out coming off as a perv. also i only see her when i'm goin to school and not when i'm going home in the after noon. some advice on the matter would help.:rock:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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jesusrules

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uh basically just say hi how are you. if she brings her skateboard ask her stuff about skatebaording. like is she any good? what kind of board she has. then if she really likes to skate say me and you should go skateboarding whats your number?:D

dude i hope your leg gets better take care man.:rockon:
 

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i don't skate but i could say u could teach me how to skate. truth is i find skatin as a cool thing like to watch skate vert in X games
 

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if she does not bring the skate board and just wears a hoody and skirt i don't have a good base on the convo except to relyin on the hoody
 
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