"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What the ****?

Lolito

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So yesterday I had a Tinder date. From match to the real date it was like 1 hour, so that went perfectly. I was today today while she (an HB 7) was on vacations on my country, so my time lapse was very short.

Went to have some drinks, had some good laughs, but I knew she was leaving 2 days after (tomorrow), so I was expecting to see how this ended.

It was really late when I drove her home (for me, as again I was working today and she knew it), and to put things worse she is staying with her brother, so I couldn't stay there. As I was about to leave her, she initiated kissing and asked me if I could have dinner with her tonight.

I said of course, imagining that would be much easier to **** her tonight as we would dine early and head for a few hours to my apartment at decent hours.

She seemed really into me, but 2 hours ago the ***** flaked, saying that her brother wants to go out with her and she feels sorry for him.

Obviously a flake, as we all know that if she really wanted she would do everything. I understand that she s just a tourist trying to **** guys, but still I found this an odd flake.

One could say that I should have tried to **** her yesterday, but IMO I explained her the rules, and proved that im disciplined and not desperate (besides I would get trashed to my job today).

What went wrong here?

Cheers
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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AttackFormation

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She probably found some other guy she wanted to fvck more and/or lost confidence that you were a good man for fvcking her which is what she's there for. Not an unlikely scenario at all, considering the time span it took for you to go from matching to meeting her.
 
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