"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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As I see it here, over the last month or two it seems we either have a lot of trolls, or a few Betas who are not looking into the info at the beginning of this site. It seems that they just come here and post stuff that would have ruffled feathers a couple of years ago.

It amazes me what some put up with in life. I thought I was bad in my past...but dayummm!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You re definitely right as yr one of the guys who's past posts I've looked through.

But ppl r intellectually lazy these days maybe the DJ Bible could benefit from having a few tactical plans. EG if you want to do online dating start here.

And probably a couple of condensed Newbie guides. The one thing everyone agrees on here is going out a lot wins. So maybe a two pager would be good that a newbie can print off and start going out that week maybe I'm wrong but the Bible looks like a lot of work as a newcomer so I think it has a certain danger of creating keyboard jockeys.

And yeah I'm guilty of making some of those beta posts. And I think they've all been tactical and based on other posts. So I hope I'm not lowering the tone heheh I normally leave that to Poon King
 
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