"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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CoolRunning

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There's this girl and her friend that I am sort of friends with. Would totally hit the friend, but I'm thinking pivot for now.

Her: Hey we want to go out tomorrow night...can you arrange that please?

Me: Arrange it? Lol. I take a break from providing concierge service on weekends.


That was my reply...how do you think I should have replied? If she texts back apologizing or with a different tone, I will tell them about a party my friend is having.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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whistler

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CoolRunning said:
There's this girl and her friend that I am sort of friends with. Would totally hit the friend, but I'm thinking pivot for now.

Her: Hey we want to go out tomorrow night...can you arrange that please?

Me: Arrange it? Lol. I take a break from providing concierge service on weekends.


That was my reply...how do you think I should have replied? If she texts back apologizing or with a different tone, I will tell them about a party my friend is having.

That was actually pretty clever. Not that a reply was even warranted...
 

Wiesman44

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I don't understand why u want advice on how u should have replied. What difference does it make on how u replied ? I really don't get the point of moronic threads like these.
 
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