"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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what the **** someone help me out

SnowBlind77

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recently (past month or so) everytime i go to get drunk, i cant. My stomach acts all crazy and i feel like im gonna puke, even if i have only one beer. I really have no clue what is going on. I went to Cuba 2 months ago and pounded like a champ every single night. Sometimes i think its cuz i dont eat enough when i go out, but then i eat, and drink, and i feel like **** still. has this happened to anyone before..? im guessing not but if you guys have any ideas or advice that would be great
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Who ever thought that drinking a poison would eventually have side effects? :rolleyes:

All I can say is stop using alcohol as a crutch for having a good time and build up your own confidence. That way you won't need to drink yourself stupid to loosen up and have fun.
 

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I agree with tilltheendoftime - good post btw man
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SnowBlind77

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Jezz said:
I agree with tilltheendoftime - good post btw man
...i just wanted some advice, i didnt ask for your sarcasm, if you wanna be a jerk then creep.
 
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