"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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what the quickest techniques and ways to meet girls in class and school?

collalife

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girls you talk to class,how to build on it?

how to meet hot girls you see in the courtyard?

building value?

free openers and routines much appreciated.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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collalife said:
girls you talk to class,how to build on it?

how to meet hot girls you see in the courtyard?

building value?

free openers and routines much appreciated.

Show off your brain during class, answer questions.

the girls will open you after class. And they will be mooore open to when u open them later.

Sarge on..
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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L Duke said:
Show off your brain during class, answer questions.

the girls will open you after class. And they will be mooore open to when u open them later.

Sarge on..
Good idea. Even just by answering questions and having a presence in class will built a connection between you and any girl/s you're after.

Extracurricular activities are also great ways to meet people. Since you'll share interests, starting conversation is easy.

As for the courtyard, I would start by looking for girls sitting by themselves. If she looks bored, I like to start with "Hey... it looks like you need someone interesting to talk to", accompanied by a smile, then an introduction.
 

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L Duke said:
Show off your brain during class, answer questions.

the girls will open you after class. And they will be mooore open to when u open them later.

Sarge on..
Better yet, I'll give her a copy of my IQ test.
 
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