"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What the people on this board are NOT telling you.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
now i have a steady girlfriend and talk to other girls some on the side. you have to get to know you without a website making it you. its a glass mask that everyone sees through, and although it hurts to break it, being free is so much nicer.
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B-Lemond
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That's AWESOME Kyle! I know you mentioned it to me before, but it never quite stood out to me that it was IVY LEAGUE! Which is it? I'll try to come and visit.comic_relief said:5.) Going to a Ivy League University
comic_relief
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Millersville University, I'll PM you info about it because I do not want to hi-jack the thread.B-Lemond said:That's AWESOME Kyle! I know you mentioned it to me before, but it never quite stood out to me that it was IVY LEAGUE! Which is it? I'll try to come and visit.
comic_relief
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Are you sure it's 95% and not 94%? What about 93.47%?Sebastien_Valmont said:95% percent of the things you read on this board DO NOT WORK. Simple as that.
This includes Pook, this includes Lorenzo, this includes Brazillian Blues Boy and Whatsupwiddat.
People need to stop taking everything verbatim.
When will you people realize that waking up and telling yourself that you will have a good day WILL NOT make it a good day
There is no NEED to learn ********, because girls will project everything through body language. If you don't talk to them in person and can't see their body language you won't get with them. Period.
Be choosy on this board, everything you read is not a surefire way to get laid. I know, I tried to do everything word for word and it failed... miserably. ONLY when I tossed everything I learned out is when I truly became happy.
So now i'm back on the board to show you guys what's up and smack some sense into you.
You can't just make assumptions like this just because you've been reading the whole time, yet you don't take any.....Get ready for it......ACTION!
Start interacting with PEOPLE and your success with girls will come.