"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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what the **** is wrong with me?

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this girl is perfect... she fell for me so hard, i have her right where i want her.... but I dont want her...

there is another girl that I want. hung out with her a few times and the last time we hung out I had her falling for me. Not as bad as the other girl, and im not even sure if this girl likes me / if i have a chance with her. I haven't seen her in the halls in about 2 days i am getting pissed off. I just want to talk to her sooooo bad, what the hell is wrong with me? ( this girl also has a bf but flirts with me alot )
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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this girl is perfect... she fell for me so hard, i have her right where i want her.... but I dont want her...
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Ask yourself that again.

This girl is perfect - And you say you DON'T WANT HER???

she FELL for me so hard - WTFRU Doing>??? You're going to let the perfect girl that FELL for you...slip out of your hands....

tell me...you admitted that you have her where you want her, she's fallen for you and, and, AND, you think she's perfect.


I..am speechless at how you would pass up SUCH a chance. If I had that...I would be literally crying because of the luck that takes....comeon, wake up and smell the world hit you with everything it's got.
 
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he wants challenge, and this kill was too easy. Even if she's perfect, she's not satisfying enough.
 
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Originally posted by Docs
Ask yourself that again.

This girl is perfect - And you say you DON'T WANT HER???

she FELL for me so hard - WTFRU Doing>??? You're going to let the perfect girl that FELL for you...slip out of your hands....

tell me...you admitted that you have her where you want her, she's fallen for you and, and, AND, you think she's perfect.


I..am speechless at how you would pass up SUCH a chance. If I had that...I would be literally crying because of the luck that takes....comeon, wake up and smell the world hit you with everything it's got.
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hey man maybe thats you.. but I'm just not feeling this girl for some reason... she is soo hot and she likes me so much, the other girl is less attractive but I like her sooooooo much more omg.. its just sooo ****ed up i dont know what the **** is wrong with me ?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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well..I'd take the one I would have the chance with if I had feelings for her too...so I guess I outspoke myself again.

I seriously wish you had feelings for zee perfect one though, esp. if she fell head over heels..
 
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yeah idk why i dont have feelings for her either, i only like when her when we hook up lol, the other girl i have real feelings for
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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preatty much same deal with me man there is this girl that is a hb9 i used to like her i thought she was awsome untill i got her i dont want her or i do but very little
 
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