"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What the hell!!!

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Has some other guys AFC actions ever caused you a headache?

That is what I am dealing with at the moment. Some schmuck decided to take my teammate/coworker on a two week vacation to Hawaii.

They've been dating for FOUR months!

The kicker is that the guy is paying for the whole thing...

I'd like to kick this dudes ass just for being such a schmuck!

And yes, the actions of both of these clowns is a real inconvenience. I'm pretty much doing her job for the next two weeks. The good thing is that I am proving that I can do her stuff, as well as my own stuff.

Maybe they will let her go and I'll get her responsibilities and a raise.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sure. People are entitled to take time off and spend their money as they please. This sounds like a serious case of you being unable to just get the **** on with your work and keep your resentful snout out of your co-workers' private lives.

Why get outraged over such trivia?
 
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Sure. People are entitled to take time off and spend their money as they please. This sounds like a serious case of you being unable to just get the **** on with your work and keep your resentful snout out of your co-workers' private lives.

Why get outraged over such trivia?
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Me thinks CHICAGO27 wanted to go on the Hawaii trip.
 
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Sure... It would have been awesome! Could you guys pay for me? I'll fly over there tomorrow.
 
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Who cares what other people think? Isn't this the reason for this board? To examine the actions of others and to offer improvement to make ourselves better men?
I was using this post more as an example of what NOT to do.
Maybe I am crazy or something but I don't believe men should be flowering women with gifts, trips, etc, especially four months into a relationship. You are setting a precedent for bad future behavior.
Am I jealous? Maybe a little bit... Who wouldn't be? I'd definitely rather be in Hawaii than in Chicago in April. Am I pissed off that she left me in a lurch and I have to do her job on top of my job? Yeah!
Gentlemen, were not robots! We all have days where we're pissed. I was pissed, and had every right to be.
My post was to vent and to make an example. That's all!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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