What the HELL!??

[In2theGame]

Alright im gonna make this short. Need some help, advice or anything but would prefer responses from guys who have had a similar dilemma

Here's my Issue: Lately woman have been mean to me for no apparent reason and when i go out looking good and feeling good (nice clothes, hair cut etc) it only gets worse. For example, woman at my new job.... i have not given any "dirty" looks or anything. I just sit at my office desk and do my work yet when im walking to the bathroom or another part of the building..woman look over at me with a very serious face and when i look their way, they quickly look away with this "snotty" type attitude. WTF?... Example #2. hot milf that sits close by me at the office.... Avoids me like crazy, for example if shes walking past my desk, she looks the other way. If i walk past her desk shes making sure not to look in my direction. Now from a far, i catch her looking at me many times. WTF? i did nothing to provoke such an attitude. I dont carry a "jerk" attitude, im a very laid back guy. I have been called hot, sexy and even gorgeous a few times by woman. Dont get the wrong idea, im not saying im increadible looking, im just stating what woman have called me before. I even picked up this latina model a month ago at a pizzeria while at lunch with a co-worker... unfortunatly i lost my phone, the same Damn week, ugh still pissed about that but anyway thats another story... I dont get what the attitudes these woman put up for no reason at all. It would be understandible if a woman was on her poeriod but not every woman gets their period at the same time, so its gotta be something else? is it me? am i dont something to provoke such an attitude? bottom line is, what is behind this behaivor? input please.

 

[Bvbidd]

You look like a retard. Fixed your problem.

 

[In2theGame]

You look like a retard. Fixed your problem.

Come on dude, why the bad comment?

 

[Crazy Asian]

become more friendly
more caring
and don't over power the woman

it's ur looks that are scaring them from what i can tell.
either u do that or become uglier.

...my 2 cents.

 

[In2theGame]

Thanks guys. I will try to smile more. I tend to not smile that much but not in a mean looking way. On the other hand when i do smile, i get smiles in return. Ill try that....

 

[In2theGame]

Be a little bit more out-going and for God's sake smile at people once in a while. I know what your saying because I was coping the same attitudes as well by women but the thing is that when you look good and are calm and collected, people stereotype you like crazy. They think your a "playa" or a di*k-head, jerk etc etc so women especially find anyway to "rule" you out. It's kind of like a self-sabotage for them, in a way they FIND reason's to NOT talk to you.

And well you NOT saying hi and NOT being friendly adds on to their rationale's about you. Do this...next time your passing by any of these girls just say Hi to them and give them a warm and friendly smile that's all. You don't even have to keep talking to them just say hi to them to ease their guards a little bit. I guarantee you they will be thinking about the "hot" guy who they thought was an as*hole actually said HI to them. Even if they don't reply back just say Hi to them next time AGAIN and be a little loud. If they don't reply back the second time try one last time...you know the third times the charm.

After that just go cold on their ass and don't even worry about it. But my real question is that are you actually planning to TALK to these women...? Do they look good...? or you just trying to be friendly...? Do you really care about what they think anyway...?:nervous:

Thanks Devan, Yeah, i dont want to be looked at as a playa or a D*ck. Im a cool person and i dont mean to come off that way if i am.

 

[In2theGame]

"After that just go cold on their ass and don't even worry about it. But my real question is that are you actually planning to TALK to these women...? Do they look good...? or you just trying to be friendly...? Do you really care about what they think anyway...?"

Some look good, some dont. the "hotter" ones seem to crack a smile at me alot more. the Average looking woman give me a "Your a Jerk" look. Im just trying to be friendly but in return i just get a cold shoulder for no reason. Example,very politely, I asked a woman at my office for some paper for a printer because i was new and didnt know where to find it. She gets up with a "Sigh" and says Here! its Here! i stood there like 'I wanna smack you" but smiled and said thanks, then she giggled. man woman get weird somtimes. trying to figure woman out is like cutting a 5 acre lawn with nail clippers sometimes.

 

[amoka]

This women more likely view you as a non-friendly type of person. Surprise them one day by walking up to them and say: "For the past couple of months I've noticed you looking at me....." Depending on your status at the work place you might add in few job asking if she was thinking about taking out for lunch etc. If you want to remain professional at the workplace, you might want to let them know that it makes you uncomfortable for her to be looking at you in a weird way.

 

[Dilberto]

If you look, dress, smell, good....and keep your nose up about it- women will smell that......and your shizzle will surely fizzle. Try carrying yourself like this is the "basic you" and women's curiosity will increase. Any sudden changes in your appearance will create negative reactions, because the people you see every day at work already know how you are like. I think Seinfeld already tried this many times....

 

[In2theGame]

"For the past couple of months I've noticed you looking at me....." QUOTE]

I wouldnt say that. Woman in corporate places have so much power. One little "peep" and its over for the dude.

 

[Prodigy746]

It seems to me that these women are checking you out but are trying to pretend like they are not. They prolly look at you but dont want you to see them looking at u. Try talking to them go and introduce yourself... If women called you hot/sexy etc you prolly are, i have had instances like this happen to me and after getting to know the girl she tells me that she had the hots for me at first.