"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What the hell to do!

piltad

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Hopefully that got your attention i know that good ideas for dates has been talked about quite alot but reading through those i don't think some of them will do to well in the winter i mean taking a walk in two feet of snow and 20 degree weather doesn't exactly sound romantic......

So i was wondering if any of you had a good idea for a winter date? I have been thinking about it and all i can think of is ice skating but we don't have a rink within an hour drive. So here is your chance to amaze me;) Hopefully you guys can come up with some good ones since my mind is blank.

Thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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wavejams007

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Your only solution is to become a hermit.
 

DiMallio

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Originally posted by AC/DC
TAKE. HER. TO. LUNCH.
:crackup: yeah exactly.. surely you have buildings where u live that you can bring her somewhere indoors ??????
 

piltad

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I could take her indoors???? who knew.... NO **** maybe i should of made thes clearer i was wondering if any of you had some interesting winter dates that you have ever done. Not something that you can do any part of the year some how the date was tied into how cold it was or snow or something.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Damian

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It doesn't matter where you take her. If you are confident and display interest properly, location shouldn't matter. Just pick one and adapt.

-Damian
 

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take her for a walk in the park. only expense would be gas. gives you good chance to go kino with the cold weather n all. Sit on a bench and have her sit in your lap. Worked for me.
 

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Take her ice skating. It's not something she probably doesn't every day, and it makes for a fun date. She'll also probably have a blast.
 

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Originally posted by TheManlyMan
take her for a walk in the park. only expense would be gas. gives you good chance to go kino with the cold weather n all. Sit on a bench and have her sit in your lap. Worked for me.
How do you stay on a bench if theres snow on it. :crackup: :crackup:

Maybe you should read what he said before posting.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Noctlos

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Wait, you have snow, and you live in Idaho? Whats up with that. I got none in my area. Dont ask my area. Take her Snowboarding. Everyone snowboards. Perfect kino
 

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Do some sleding...throw some snow balls....do some "subtle" kinoing.....something unique.
 

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I gotta agree with DJ4Real here...

Who DOESNT go snowboarding, ice skating, or whatever trendy, MTV-head, typical snow activity? Last time I saw snow was when I was 6, but as far as I know, all my friends talk about snowboard this, snowboard that.

Might I suggest try doing "wrastling" in the snow, snowball fights, intimate talk, and kiss close? Bim badda boom.

Kino, Kino, Attraction, Kino, Intimacy, Kino, did I mention Kino?
 

immrtlwun

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^^ sledding and a snow ball fight.

Afterwards, you go back to your place to "warm up." Make some hot cocoa, throw in a movie, and chill. Remember, kino allows you to share body heat and warm each other up.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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