"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What the hell should I do???

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Last Man Standing said:
Why you bastards tolerate so much shyt from these belligerent mean lying hors is beyond me!!!!

You are losing your manhood!!! Do not go back to her!!!
I don't like to quote myself but - Robbie boy why didn't you listen to me??


Well I finally grew some balls this morning. She sent me some rude Asss text this morning and I finally had enough,..so I sent her this message:

Hors are rude - they don't respect themselves why would they respect you?????

Well I was just gonna sit back and take your mean sh1t again but I'm tired of it! For you to sit there and say that my stress isn't sh1t to worry about is bs. How can you say something like that to me? How can you be so cold hearted,..especially after all I've done for you??

Hors are "cold-hearted" - they are selfish - no one's feelings matter but theirs! Why are you doing "things" for hors??? Hors are good for sex - do nothing else with or for them!!


Stress is stress!! You don't know half the sh1t I'm going through. Sure,..I've had relatives die and done some bad sh1t in my lifetime too but that doesn't give me the right to treat people that I am close to like dirt!! Maybe you are better with a jerk that treats you like sh1t and cheats on you.

Yes, the hor's complementary unit is a pimp (jerk) - he coplements her because he treats her like the hor that she is!!!

I may be a wuss and soft hearted

Hors are going to eat you alive!!!!

but I'm not gonna let you demoralize me anymore.

You demoralized yourself by tolerating A HOR!!! Blame yourself!!!


I have gone out of my way to be nice to you , give you space or whatever else you needed

"Space" means that she is screwing other dudes!!! Why are you "nice" to hors - I don't understand????

buts it's obvious this is going nowhere. I want someone that will be there for me when I need them and will let me be there for them when they need me. Someone that will show me the same affection I show them. That will answer there phone when I call and not text me back saying"I don't feel like talking cause I have a headache" Who does sh1t like that?? If I'm laying there with an axe in my head and the person I care for calls me and wants to tell me something, I'm gonna talk to them.


What you want is a “woman” and NOT a hor!!!


Attraction is not a choice (her) and it's apparent that your having problems making that choice or your just trying to be nice and not hurt my feelings,..who knows???? When you decide you let me know,..until then I think it's best we just go our seperate ways.

She is on another dude's jock - you are her pet project!!


I'm done...

Me too.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Last Man Standing said:
I don't like to quote myself but - Robbie boy why didn't you listen to me??


Well I finally grew some balls this morning. She sent me some rude Asss text this morning and I finally had enough,..so I sent her this message:

Hors are rude - they don't respect themselves why would they respect you?????

Well I was just gonna sit back and take your mean sh1t again but I'm tired of it! For you to sit there and say that my stress isn't sh1t to worry about is bs. How can you say something like that to me? How can you be so cold hearted,..especially after all I've done for you??

Hors are "cold-hearted" - they are selfish - no one's feelings matter but theirs! Why are you doing "things" for hors??? Hors are good for sex - do nothing else with or for them!!


Stress is stress!! You don't know half the sh1t I'm going through. Sure,..I've had relatives die and done some bad sh1t in my lifetime too but that doesn't give me the right to treat people that I am close to like dirt!! Maybe you are better with a jerk that treats you like sh1t and cheats on you.

Yes, the hor's complementary unit is a pimp (jerk) - he coplements her because he treats her like the hor that she is!!!

I may be a wuss and soft hearted

Hors are going to eat you alive!!!!

but I'm not gonna let you demoralize me anymore.

You demoralized yourself by tolerating A HOR!!! Blame yourself!!!


I have gone out of my way to be nice to you , give you space or whatever else you needed

"Space" means that she is screwing other dudes!!! Why are you "nice" to hors - I don't understand????

buts it's obvious this is going nowhere. I want someone that will be there for me when I need them and will let me be there for them when they need me. Someone that will show me the same affection I show them. That will answer there phone when I call and not text me back saying"I don't feel like talking cause I have a headache" Who does sh1t like that?? If I'm laying there with an axe in my head and the person I care for calls me and wants to tell me something, I'm gonna talk to them.


What you want is a “woman” and NOT a hor!!!


Attraction is not a choice (her) and it's apparent that your having problems making that choice or your just trying to be nice and not hurt my feelings,..who knows???? When you decide you let me know,..until then I think it's best we just go our seperate ways.

She is on another dude's jock - you are her pet project!!


I'm done...

Me too.
nice.
 

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RobLB said:
Well I finally grew some balls this morning. She sent me some rude Asss text this morning and I finally had enough,..so I sent her this message:

Well I was just gonna sit back and take your mean sh1t again but I'm tired of it! For you to sit there and say that my stress isn't sh1t to worry about is bs. How can you say something like that to me? How can you be so cold hearted,..especially after all I've done for you?? Stress is stress!! You don't know half the sh1t I'm going through. Sure,..I've had relatives die and done some bad sh1t in my lifetime too but that doesn't give me the right to treat people that I am close to like dirt!! Maybe you are better with a jerk that treats you like sh1t and cheats on you.

I may be a wuss and soft hearted but I'm not gonna let you demoralize me anymore. I have gone out of my way to be nice to you , give you space or whatever else you needed buts it's obvious this is going nowhere. I want someone that will be there for me when I need them and will let me be there for them when they need me. Someone that will show me the same affection I show them. That will answer there phone when I call and not text me back saying"I don't feel like talking cause I have a headache" Who does sh1t like that?? If I'm laying there with an axe in my head and the person I care for calls me and wants to tell me something, I'm gonna talk to them.

Attraction is not a choice (her) and it's apparent that your having problems making that choice or your just trying to be nice and not hurt my feelings,..who knows???? When you decide you let me know,..until then I think it's best we just go our seperate ways.

I'm done...


She freaked out!!! She's been calling me and texting me since this morning. It's like a total reversal!! I just want to move along now and get on with my life,..but she keeps texting me about stupid stuff. Telling me I'm not the man she was falling in love with. The word love was never even brought up in our relationship. I think she's just trying to make me feel bad now...
There you go...it's fine to be a nice person and respect the women you get involved with...but if you are not respecting YOURSELF in the process you are going to invite people to disrespect you. People will generally treat you the way you treat youself. Respect yourself as much as you do everyone else and you can be just as nice as you want to and you won't be treated like a pile of crap.
 
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