ok so this girl that i've been seeing we were out and drinking and then we decided to come back to my place to watch a movie. she was telling me nothing will happen though. but we went anyway. we both laid down next to each other and then we started making out and then i started to rub her tits and suck on them. then down to rubbing her pvssy, it got very wet. she was like "it feels so good" i was getting super fkn horny and I grabbed a condom and opened it but she would NOT take her pants off! she then was like "no...i dont want to have sex" and all this. she started rubbing my d!ck and everything, but she just wouldn't take her pants off!! WTF! what do I need to do next time? I thought t his was just LMR but I kept trying to manipulate her and convince her but she said No, so I just said Fvck it already. I stopped. I didn't want to feel like I raped her or whatever. So we just fell asleep. Then we woke up at like 7 in the morning and then we kinda made out again and she went home.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
what the hell. she slept over, we did everything but have sex
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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She felt your 2 inch..
KontrollerX
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Gotta listen to Leykis in situations like this bro.
He always says never let em see the sun come up when they are with you.
When she pulled that no sex bullsh!t you should of made some excuse that well she's gotta go now as you need your sleep for some activity you are going to do the next day.
If she's smart at all she'd get the message of put up or shut up especially if you and she met up a few more times and you hurried her the hell out of your place whenever she blue balled you again.
You can't let these h0's get away with that sh!t where they get the intimacy they want with none of the sex you want which is why a man doesn't settle for simple bl0wj0bs, handjobs makeout sessions, t!ttysucking, t!ttyfvcking or any of that other appeasement table scraps crap chicks like to trick the uninitiated with to think that they are getting a good deal.
Fvck that.
If she doesn't put out, she is out.
On her ass.
He always says never let em see the sun come up when they are with you.
When she pulled that no sex bullsh!t you should of made some excuse that well she's gotta go now as you need your sleep for some activity you are going to do the next day.
If she's smart at all she'd get the message of put up or shut up especially if you and she met up a few more times and you hurried her the hell out of your place whenever she blue balled you again.
You can't let these h0's get away with that sh!t where they get the intimacy they want with none of the sex you want which is why a man doesn't settle for simple bl0wj0bs, handjobs makeout sessions, t!ttysucking, t!ttyfvcking or any of that other appeasement table scraps crap chicks like to trick the uninitiated with to think that they are getting a good deal.
Fvck that.
If she doesn't put out, she is out.
On her ass.
Hahaha she asked me what size condom I have and I told her XL. But my d!ck is no 2 inches...
Alright,
So basically just kick her to the curb if she won't give it up? I'll make it known to her. But then doesn't that just make me look shallow in thinking all I want from her is to fvck and that's it? I know she asked me what my intentions were with her, and she doesn't want to look like a slvt I guess. But if she doesn't put up, I can't be hanging out with her.
Alright,
So basically just kick her to the curb if she won't give it up? I'll make it known to her. But then doesn't that just make me look shallow in thinking all I want from her is to fvck and that's it? I know she asked me what my intentions were with her, and she doesn't want to look like a slvt I guess. But if she doesn't put up, I can't be hanging out with her.
How exactly did you try to "convince" her?
I really hope you werent trying to persuade her with words or anything like that.
What you did wrong:
Pulling out the condom prematurely. I mean, she still had her pants on!?!!
LOL no brother! Thats not right at all. Take out the clothes first then the condom.
When she said "I dont wanna have sex"
You should've said "yea neither do I". And just keep escalating.
Her words are nothing but an anti-slut defense.
Dont try to convince HER that she wants to f.uck, convince HER BODY.
I really hope you werent trying to persuade her with words or anything like that.
What you did wrong:
Pulling out the condom prematurely. I mean, she still had her pants on!?!!
LOL no brother! Thats not right at all. Take out the clothes first then the condom.
When she said "I dont wanna have sex"
You should've said "yea neither do I". And just keep escalating.
Her words are nothing but an anti-slut defense.
Dont try to convince HER that she wants to f.uck, convince HER BODY.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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It doesn't matter what shaming term society would label you with for going for what you want be the term shallow, callous or whatever.
Fact of the matter is she and all women respect a man who does not allow them to mindgame him.
It doesn't stop them from trying of course but yeah the more you resist it the more they try and the more they want you as a result because they just cannot figure you out enough to break you down and make you their b!tch.
Also I don't know if you are looking for a relationship with this broad or what but its like Rollo always says "its sex first and then relationship".
Anything else and you are entering into her frame where she leads and you follow and a chicks frame is never beneficial to the man.
On the other hand if you just want to hook up with her tell her anything she wants to hear to make that happen and then when things turn ugly should she find out you are hooking up with other chicks behind her back drop her dead weight from your life.
Its a win win.
Fact of the matter is she and all women respect a man who does not allow them to mindgame him.
It doesn't stop them from trying of course but yeah the more you resist it the more they try and the more they want you as a result because they just cannot figure you out enough to break you down and make you their b!tch.
Also I don't know if you are looking for a relationship with this broad or what but its like Rollo always says "its sex first and then relationship".
Anything else and you are entering into her frame where she leads and you follow and a chicks frame is never beneficial to the man.
On the other hand if you just want to hook up with her tell her anything she wants to hear to make that happen and then when things turn ugly should she find out you are hooking up with other chicks behind her back drop her dead weight from your life.
Its a win win.