It seems like every time I have sex, especially someone new, I get paranoid for the next few days because of fear that I may have got them pregnant. The deal is though, I've always used a condom, and have never had unprotected in my life. Condom has also never busted, it did slide off once, but it wasn't far and she was on top so its pretty much impossible. But still in the back of my mind I can't help but think that theres always a possibility. I guess my main thing is that I know i would definitly not be ready for a kid at this age and because I go to school and that would totally dik me over. Anyone else ever get like this.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
what the hell is wrong with me?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
thefonz
Master Don Juan
wear smaller condoms....
ha, they are the normal size condoms, i guess she was just riding it too hard, and because we kept goin for a little bit after i busted. Not a good idea. Not to mention she said afterward that she is on birth control. I just always think of the one in a million chance happenign to me. Oh well i'll be fine.
diablo
Master Don Juan
AE...
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Derek Flint
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No, no, no - do not double bag it!Originally posted by mrmoe
Hm, I've always felt safe with one. If you put one on correctly, you don't have a whole lot to worry about. You can always double-bag it next time!
Breakage is more likely when using two.
this frequently happens to me as well. i always seem to be a bit nervous until she gets her period. And by nervous i mean punching her continuosly in the stomach. in all honesty, things are fine, condoms are 99.9% effective and the pill is 99.9% too, if you get her pregnant, play the lottery for me later.